Post # 1
So just want to vent a little.. I am soooo tired of being told I am being a bi*** or a bridezila because I say my opinon about something. For example I told my FH tonight about a bridesmaid that is talking to me about getting everyone together to start looking at places for my shower. I told my BM that I did not want to know each step of the way like she was tellng me and I wanted it to be a suprise. FH said that was mean and that she is doing something nice and there was no reason to say that. Ugh!! I just don’t want to know details and stuff that’s all!! Am I being unreasonable? I’ve been feeling much anxiety lately and I don’t think I am coming off bad.. Anyone else ever feel like this??
Post # 3
I don’t think its unreasonable. She probably was asking just in case you had an opinion but I understand why you would want it to be a suprise to you. It sounds like she wants to plan a shower for you by herself so it’s not like you are making her throw you a shower. Maybe your FI is picking up on your anxiety overall and thinking that you are being unreasonable. What you said sounds perfectly reasonable to me!
Post # 4
Thanks!! Well this is the BM’s first wedding that she is in and she is overly excited. She has been taking a charge and my sister is the MOH and is younger so the older women are taking a helping hand. She is just informing me that she is helping get everyone together and maybe it is just too much for me? I don’t know.. Thanks for letting me vent. That is why I love posting things just to get off my chest 🙂
Post # 5
That’s great that she is so excited about it! I think with the help of the other ones she will do fine, plus there is a lot of guidance out there on how to throw a bridal shower. You’re welcome!