(Closed) So two days before and…

posted 7 years ago in September 2010
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

She couldn’t get on a plane? Is she ill or something? I’m sorry.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m so sorry to hear that! But you are handling it in the right way, focus on the part of the day that matters – you marrying your FI!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

that sucks but it sounds like you’re just letting it go.  It’s probably for the best.  I know people that would do that – have a panic attack or forget to take off work or something.  Maybe if you find out its a good reason you could give her some of the gifts or work with her to return some of the items.  Maybe you could give some of the gifts to someone else – an aunt that helped or the officiant’s wife or secretary or someone.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

Great attitude! You could always save her gifts for birthday presents or something. We had some no shows too at the wedding and it sucks about having to pay, but it’s just something that happens and you have to deal with it.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Hugs. I’m sorry. That would make me so sad. Enjoy your wedding, though! It sounds like you have the right attitude

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper

You really are looking at this the right way. It’s incredibly disappointing, and you have every right to be ridiculously angry at her, but in the end, you’re marrying your FI, and that’s what matters!

Good luck this weekend and congratulations!

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

You will be happy to be surrounded by your girls who love you and want to be there for you. It’s good to move on now. Glad you’re in a good place. Get ready for a wonderful weekend!!!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Wow, kudos for you for handling this so well.  I am wondering what “couldn’t get on a plane” means though…

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

honestly I would consider it a blessing in disguise. It sucks, and you wasted some money, but hopefully your day will just go off without a hitch and you wont even realize shes gone.

I am so sorry that happened, that last minute is just a little crazy.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Ms. Caniche:  Your friend sounds like some people I know…could we be running in the same circles?  😉  It certainly is a blessing in disguise, I’m glad you’re looking at it that way.  Your wedding is going to be beautiful and wonderful- Just what you want it to be.  She’ll regret not coming someday.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

And P.S.  Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!  Make sure you post pics when you can!  🙂

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