(Closed) So upset right now- MOH says she feels used

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Ugh, sounds like she is a bit self absorbed or maybe she is just confused?

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Umm, she’s being ridiculous…What does she want from you?

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

(((((hugs)))))

Ohmygosh, I am so sorry you are going through this. I can’t believe she would turn this back around on her. Obviously you want them there if they are your ONLY guests! It’s ridiculous. I know wedding planning has brought up some issues for me where I realize how much I wish my family cared more about me, and this reminds me of it. It hurts, and you’d think your friends would be there for you. I hope she comes to her senses.

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

She sounds as crazy and irrational as my mother is being right now. Good luck with this!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

An old friend of mine was totally like this. I believe the psychological term is “narcissist” … it’s all about them. You don’t exist except as a bit player in the drama of her life, basically.

I think you already HAVE been the better friend here, and she is absolutely being ridiculous.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m so sorry! I wish I knew what you could tell her, but I really don’t! I didn’t read anywhere that she and the BM were cut entirely from the wedding!

Post # 10
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Busy bee

Wow! I couldn’t even make sense of her response. It sounds like you have done nothing but be kind to her. Is you FI involved? Maybe he can speak to the husband. You are in our thoughts.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

*hugs* and good luck. I wish I had some kind of advice.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

This is very strange!  Are you sure that she understood what you were saying?  Maybe a phone call is in order, just to make sure that she understood the actual change? 

If you’re sure that she knows what’s going on, then the only other explanation is that she’s psycho.  If she needs that much reassurance and petting, then you’re no longer her friend, you’re her care taker. 

Good luck!  I hope that you and your FI enjoy every minute of your wedding day! 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@cbee- I know it may be not polite but if she skips out on your wedding…I’d tell her I wanted the necklace and shoes back!

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