(Closed) *SOB*

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Aww, hun. He’ll be there with you. Maybe you can incorporate the song in another part of the ceremony, I think that’d be a great idea!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m sorry sweetie. But you need to remember that he will absolutely be there with you and would want you have nothing but happiness on your wedding day.  You could even listen to it before you start getting ready in the morning, cry and have a few moments thinking about your father, and then smile, knowing what a wonderful day you have ahead and how proud he would be of you!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m sorry hun. I know how tough it is, as my father passed away about 12 years ago. Luckily, I have a wonderful stepfather to walk me down the aisle, but I still get sad when I think about the fact that my biological father won’t be walking me down the aisle or dancing with me at my wedding. However, I know he’ll be there with me in spirit, just as your father will be with you!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@VagabondGurl:  I’m glad I could help 🙂

Post # 9
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think you are smart to try to keep your wedding a happy occasion, and to try to avoid situations that would leave you sobbing on your wedding day.  But I know how you feel.. my father died very suddenly 7 months ago, a week after I got engaged.  And on the morning he died, I called him to tell him the song I wanted to use for our Father/Daughter dance.  So even though we’re avoiding the whole Parent/Child dance segment, it will still be emotional.  Instead, we are going to play an upbeat song that always reminds us of him, while everyone is on the dancefloor, so it’s more of a celebration of our memories of him!

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