(Closed) Some Bridal Shower Q’s, need help with etiquette

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

yes get them gifts- i think that’s pretty customary. and just the nice thing to do. no, i dont think you need to invite them to that one. if they say anything you can just mention since they threw you such a nice shower, you didn’t want to obligate them to come to another one in your honor. that shower sounds pretty awkward, by the way.. i’d have been really uncomfortable!!! 

Post # 4
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613 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

you dont have to get them big gifts.  you could send a bouquet of flowers with a nice handwritten note.  i gave my hostesses stuff from Lush with little cards that said ‘from my shower to yours’.

as far as inviting them to the seconds shower…did they invite your mom and MOH?  if not, then theres no need to invite them.  if they ask later, say something about the beautiful shower they through and not wanting to bother them too much…

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