- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
I just remembered these sweet memories about things my FI has said to me and wanted to share them.
The first memory that popped into my mind was one of right before FI and I started dating. He said he wasn’t going to go out with me because I was a virgin and he wasn’t. He wasn’t really looking for a long-term girlfriend and I was looking for someone to be with for the rest of my life. Something he said then really stuck with me, though. He said, “I don’t want to have a relationship with you and mess it up, because you’re the kind of girl a guy marries. You’re not a fling.” The funny part is, we started dating a couple of days after he said he wasn’t going to ask me out. LOL!
I don’t even think that my FI remembers saying this, but back when we were still dating, he told me once that I’ll be the last girl he dates. This statement completely took me by surprise at the time. We had only been dating for a couple of months and even though I was pretty sure he was the one, I had NO idea that he felt that strongly about me. This memory is actually one of the things that helped me make up my mind about him being the one. I’m pretty insecure, so I always assume that people don’t like me much. But it’s really hard to argue that someone doesn’t love you after a statement like that. 🙂
My FI is so sweet! Okay, I’m done bragging. Feel free to share any sweet memories you have in the comments! I love reading about stuff like this!