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    katerrific    8-7-2010   Lansing, Michigan

    Ever had a moment when you said or did something that anyone on the Hive would totally get, but non-bees or non-brides-to-be were clueless? Case in point: today I was buying a swatch of fabric to make a bowtie for a bird on my cake topper (totally cute, I've seen a few Bees do something similar)... and when I told the saleslady I was making a bird bowtie she about lost her mind. She thought I was putting it on a real LIVE bird! Hehehe... I forget that the whole world doesn't revolve around weddings. You guys would have known exactly what I meant.

    I started to wonder if anybod else had a similar hilarious experience?

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    Lmao! A bowtie on a real bird would be freakin' hilarious!

    I've caught myself saying FI and stuff like that on Facebook and people are like, whaaa?!

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    Oh I have stuff like that all the time. Especially with friends who are also planning wedding but aren't quite as...enthusiastic about it as I am, haha.

     
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    katerrific    8-7-2010   Lansing, Michigan

    @Laylabelle: Me too! The best was when I posted on a fellow wedding planning friend's wall about her "STDs" I forgot it has a whole other meaning!

    @Amanda.lynnn: LOL- I love the hesitation as you described yourself as "enthusiastic" about wedding planning. I know exactly what you mean!

     

     

     
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    GaBGal    September 25, 2010  

    lol more often than not. i love the bird bowtie

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    I've started to accidentally use abbreviations and such on other sites and in e-mails. lol. I've had a couple moments like yours as well. lol.

     
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    mimosa    May 29, 2010   NC

    Yeah, I def use FI and STD's a lot.. LMAO

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    bamm    June 5th 2010/August 15th 2010   Seoul

    I sent a picture of a pirate themed wedding to a few very close friends because a) the outfits were super hot b) those girls love pirates!! I thought they would love the pic and appreciate the coolness of the wedding...all I got back was a carefully worded email from one girl about how I was getting too excited about wedding planning and I should be careful because after the wedding I was going to have planning withdrawl after the wedding.  sigh. 

     
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    verosara    March 27, 2010   LA, California

    Yes, I had mentioned STDs the other day and the SO was like, wha?  So little by little I've been trying to clue him in a bit more of my hive lingo. 

     
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    katerrific    8-7-2010   Lansing, Michigan

    @ Bamm: LMAO! Just post these things here on weddingbee, my friend... we are one big "cult" that others just don't get, aren't we?

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I actually talked to Mr. S's brother's new girlfriend about "STDs" and it was fully out of my mouth before I remembered I wasn't on Weddingbee and I shouldn't have abbreviated. ;)

     
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    limbobride       Midwest

    ok, someone please help a slow girl out, I don't know what a bird bowtie is...please don't hate me or kick me outta the hive..Embarassed

     

     
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    rofarrell    June 19, 2010   Lafayette, IN

    I didn't even know what SO meant for the longest time!!  haha   A bird bowtie is an actual mini ribbon bowtie that people use to put on a bird groom figurine sometimes used as a cake topper!  i.e. love birds

     
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    limbobride       Midwest

    oooh I see...thanks...

     
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    JewishBride    June 13, 2010   Michigan

    i asked my father for his brother's adress and i said to "send him a STD." he cracked up and said it would be a good idea. i didn't understand why it was so funny till afterward. lol.

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    The other day I used MIL in an e-mail and I got a reply that said, "What does MIL mean?"  LOL!

     
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    katerrific    8-7-2010   Lansing, Michigan

    Well, we speak in code and I like it!

    @Limbobride: Haha, so maybe it isn't even a weddingbee thing, maybe I've just been stalking bird-themed wedding blogs so much that I think everyone else does too. But there's plenty out there I don't know about yet too- you're definitely not hated or slow for not knowing that one :)

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    Ha ha ha! So far I've been able to keep my WB lingo under wraps, but I don't know how long that will be the case.

     
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    Gilneas    October 10, 2010   NJ

    "STD" is an abbreviation I just refuse to use because I giggle whenever I see it!  Same goes for BM for Best Man or Bridesmaids actually too.. I just think of "bowel movement" as BM :(

     
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    octopus    January 1, 2000  

    I think inspiration boards are something people who are not as enthusiastic about weddings don't get! A friend of mine was planning a peacock themed wedding, and I sent her an inspiration board I found on Snippet & Ink (I wasn't officially engaged yet at the time either, hahaha) and the response I got back was basically "......oooookay."

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    hehehehe oh that is too funny :)

    A birdie bow tie!

    I love it :)

    I am also having a bird cake topper...that I got off esty (special made for us)...it isn't done yet but it'll look like this:

     

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    blingqueen    October 16, 2010   Cincinnati, Ohio

    Help... i am new and I don't know the lingo :)

     
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    MissManga    December 31, 2015  

    I'll say things like, "I saw ______ on the hive the other day. So cute, right?" But all I get is a blank stare before I realize that they don't know what this is!

     
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    My SO wonders were I get all of my info from and weird abbreviations for such words..still haven't dropped STD on him ha ...and the birds are so adorable..I haven't seen that before so cute!

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    I constantly try to explain to friends the wedding website I am obsessed with, and they all automatically think of The Knot. I wish everyone knew how wonderful Weddingbee is.

     
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    katerrific    8-7-2010   Lansing, Michigan

    @ Blingqueen: Check this post out & you'll be all caught up on the lingo Laughing

    http://www.weddingbee.com/2006/10/25/wedding-acronym-dictionary/

     

     
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    Helstrong    April 9, 2011   Overland Park, KS

    Thanks for posting the dictionary link. I needed confirmation that I knew the lingo too. I was pretty sure on most but good to check! 

    I just joined so I don' thave this problem yet.. but give me time and the boyfriend (I willl have to look at the lingo for that) will be wanting to strangle me!

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    I think this very thread (the bird bowtie) needs to become another whole thread...like "You know you're a member of the hive when you...."!

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    Here's my latest craziest moment!

    I call up J. Crew and ask if they can send u swatches of pink and green fabric so I can go match them to flowers and moss.

    When I told the lady over the phone that, she was like...um moss?

    I said "yes, the shade of tie and the moss I'm using HAVE to go together!"

    The lady on the other end waited again and said.."are you hosting a garden party when its warmer?" (there is snow in much of the northeast right now)  I said "no, I'm getting married".  She said "Well that explains it!"

    But you see, I'm one of many bees and details matter!  lol!!!!  Details do matter!!!

     
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    teaadntoast    04/23/2010   New York, NY

    I had an extended conversation with my mother over e-mail repeatedly referencing my BM and BM duties.

    She very delicately inquired after my gastrointestinal health.

     

     
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    des_salazar    November 13, 2010   Live in Houston, TX / Wedding in Winter Park, CO

    @sulli, I love those cake toppers. I want them so bad but FI vetoed them. I love when the girl wears a veil!

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    I started talking about STDs at our engagement party. Without saying the full phrase. I got lots of strange looks until Mr. Scissors clarified for them. :p

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    @Scissors, LOL I can just imagine your guests faces! "Umm, yes Scissors.... STDs.. yeah, they're really... um... great".

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    Lolol. Yeah, that's pretty much how it went.

     
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    msqthoney    April 10, 2010   Los Angeles, California

    well, i just say, "i saw that idea in weddingbee", or "i got this vendor at weddingbee", and my bridesmaids are like, wwwwhhhhheeeeerrrrrrreeeeeeee? LOL

     
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    D.Marie    April 24, 2010   Philadelphia, PA

    lol I just tell my fiance that Im on my favorite site when he asks what Im doing...and he knows!

     
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    auddurz91    December 18, 2010   Axton

    Everyone thinks I'm crazy for planning my wedding in detail, they all think I will have "withdrawals".  When I found this site I fell in love.  I told my fiance "They totally get me!" 

     

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