- 3 years ago
- Wedding: February 2014
So after what seems to be an eternity of house hunting, FI and I decided to go the building route. We met with a builder yesterday, and pretty much wanted it, but we wanted to go home and think about it. Later that day, the builder agent called our realtor with incentives. We sat down, and decided that this was the plan we wanted, how it would be financially, and contingency plans for future children.
Here’s the problem…I’M NERVOUS. I have been up on and off since 3-ish, and been up and out of bed since 6…on a Sunday! This is earlier than I get up for work every day. The builder’s office opens at 12, but we won’t be able to meet him until 6 due to a prior commitment. I keep worrying that since there is only 1 lot left for the one that we like that someone is going to take it in the 6 hours that they’re open. Then I start worrying about not being able to get financing (even though our realtor says we won’t need to have a loan secured until closing time). Then I’m worried something else will fall through. I keep telling myself that if it’s meant to be ours, it’ll all work out, and if it doesn’t, then we’re not meant to have that house. But still!
Summary: I’m a nervous wreck and can’t get back to sleep (and FI will be asleep for another 4 hours at least…we’re night owls so we like to sleep in during the day time). Help me calm down please!