(Closed) Someone removing your posts on Facebook?

posted 5 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Busy bee

This is why I hate Facebook!!  I would suggest either meeting with or calling her and asking outright what you have asked us!  It maybe that she is upset over the tux fight or it may be something else entirely.

Post # 4
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6360 posts
Bee Keeper

Maybe she told someone else she was out with you yesterday or something.

Because that is weird.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s. Only. Facebook.

EDIT: Sorry, that was a bit abupt. What I’m getting at is you can’t be sure of her motivations. Don’t judge her by facebook behaviour unless it’s unambiguously hostile, which this isn’t.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

@rubybride718:  I’d straight up ask her in a voicemail, since she’s obviously not picking up her phone. If you still don’t get an answer, maybe FI could ask his brother. 

I don’t understand passive aggressiveness at all. How in the world can Mary think to herself that her behavior is acceptable and/or that it will solve the problem she has with you?

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@rubybride718:  Yeah but maybe she doesn’t like posts which sound too personal (“I miss you”) or allude to her personal movements. Who knows? Unless someone says something unambiguously hostile (like, “I hate you Paula, u r a bitch”) then I find it’s best to not guess at their motives. Like other posters say, I think you need to talk to her instead.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper

@paula1248:  Actually, even then I’d assume their account was compromised, like by their obnoxious nephew or something.

Facebook PM her?

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper

So, it sounds like she probably is icing you out over the tux issue then. It could be that her husband is still really angry about it and she doesn’t want to upset him, or she may not have admitted that she really was angry with you. I guess you have to give it time… what other choice do you have?

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper

I have no idea. It’s so hard to guess what she might be thinking. I think you just have to wait for her to contact you and then ask her what’s on her mind.

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