Post # 1
Ok… I was talking to my future Mother inlaw about going shopping for her dress. She then asks me if I was ready for Sunday? I said oh, what’s Sunday and she says the Bridal Shower. She was a bit loud and my FI snatched the phone away and walked into the kitchen. So I know that it’s this coming Sunday. The question I have is should I act surprised? I dont want to ruin it for my BM’s and mom who have worked so hard at keeping the secret. My FI was trying to cover it up by saying we were all going out to dinner to celebrate my stepdaughters birthday.
Post # 3
I would just act surprised. 🙂
Post # 5
This happened to my oldest sister. Someone actually called her to apologize that they couldn’t make it to her shower on X date, meanwhile it was supposed to be a surprise. She didn’t mention it to anyone until way after the wedding and she didn’t act surprised necessarily, just very excited and happy when everyone jumped out. And I think when people asked if she was surprised she just said things like “Oh it’s impossible to surprise a bride about to get married, but I appreciate the effert!” So no one felt too disappointed or singled out.