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    melv0802    September 18, 2010   new jersey/philadelphia

    Hey bees=) Was just wondering, does anyone know the reason behind why these  4 things are still tradition?? just curious...what are your something old, new, borrowed, blue??

     
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    simpleandchic    November 27, 2010   Adelaide, South Australia

    Found this on Yahoo:

    Something old, something new
    Something borrowed, something blue
    And a silver sixpence in her shoe.

    A sixpence is a coin that was minted in Britain from 1551 to 1967. It was made of silver and worth six pennies. So this wedding tradition is definitely English, and many sources say that it began in the Victorian era. Each item in this poem represents a good-luck token for the bride. If she carries all of them on her wedding day, her marriage will be happy. "Something old" symbolizes continuity with the bride's family and the past. "Something new" means optimism and hope for the bride's new life ahead. "Something borrowed" is usually an item from a happily married friend or family member, whose good fortune in marriage is supposed to carry over to the new bride. The borrowed item also reminds the bride that she can depend on her friends and family.

    As for the colorful item, blue has been connected to weddings for centuries. In ancient Rome, brides wore blue to symbolize love, modesty, and fidelity. Christianity has long dressed the Virgin Mary in blue, so purity was associated with the color. Before the late 19th century, blue was a popular color for wedding gowns, as evidenced in proverbs like, "Marry in blue, lover be true."

    And finally, a silver sixpence in the bride's shoe represents wealth and financial security. It may date back to a Scottish custom of a groom putting a silver coin under his foot for good luck. For optimum fortune, the sixpence should be in the left shoe. These days, a dime or a copper penny is sometimes substituted, and many companies sell keepsake sixpences for weddings.

     mine so far are

     new- the dress

    blue- either my shoes if I can find some or my lingerie

    borrowed-

    old- my gran's broach

    borrowed-??????

     

     
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    simpleandchic    November 27, 2010   Adelaide, South Australia

    Found this on yahoo:

    Something old, something new
    Something borrowed, something blue
    And a silver sixpence in her shoe.

    A sixpence is a coin that was minted in Britain from 1551 to 1967. It was made of silver and worth six pennies. So this wedding tradition is definitely English, and many sources say that it began in the Victorian era.

    Each item in this poem represents a good-luck token for the bride. If she carries all of them on her wedding day, her marriage will be happy. "Something old" symbolizes continuity with the bride's family and the past. "Something new" means optimism and hope for the bride's new life ahead. "Something borrowed" is usually an item from a happily married friend or family member, whose good fortune in marriage is supposed to carry over to the new bride. The borrowed item also reminds the bride that she can depend on her friends and family.

    As for the colorful item, blue has been connected to weddings for centuries. In ancient Rome, brides wore blue to symbolize love, modesty, and fidelity. Christianity has long dressed the Virgin Mary in blue, so purity was associated with the color. Before the late 19th century, blue was a popular color for wedding gowns, as evidenced in proverbs like, "Marry in blue, lover be true."

    And finally, a silver sixpence in the bride's shoe represents wealth and financial security. It may date back to a Scottish custom of a groom putting a silver coin under his foot for good luck. For optimum fortune, the sixpence should be in the left shoe. These days, a dime or a copper penny is sometimes substituted, and many companies sell keepsake sixpences for weddings.

     
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    melv0802    September 18, 2010   new jersey/philadelphia

    thanks simpleandchic=) good to know!

     
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    cheerful    September 2009 - eloped  

    New: Veil, dress, clutch

    Old: heirloom family handkerchief, antique brooch on clutch

    Borrowed: beautiful pearl and diamond ring from friend

    Blue: my undies!

    And a sixpence in my shoe :-)

     
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    Mermaid1082    September 4, 2010   St Louis, MO

    It's good luck and very symbolic.

    Old: a whote lace hankie my grandma carried on her wedding day (that her mom had made for her)

    New: dress and whatnot

    Borrowed: my mom's veil and the buttons from her wedding dress

    Blue: shoes

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    I had no idea, for some reason I felt like I had to do it!

    Old: Engagement ring

    New: Dress

    Borrowed: Mom's necklace and bracelet, FMIL's bible

    Blue: Hankerchief

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    Old: Great Grandmother's Handkerchief

    New: Dress, shoes, veil etc.

    Borrowed: Friend's freshwater pearl necklace

    Blue: Garter

     

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