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Something old, new, borrowed, and blue?

posted 2 years ago in Accessories
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  • poll: Are you following the tradition of having something old, new, borrowed, and blue?
    Yes : (59 votes)
    81 %
    No : (12 votes)
    16 %
    Other (I'll explain!) : (2 votes)
    3 %
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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    Do you plan on following this tradition on your wedding day?

     
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    bvig    September 2009   wedding in NJ

    Planned to but forgot the things on the wedding day.  Some were incorporated so they couldn't be forgotten but not all, oh well.

     
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    july112010    July 11, 2010   los angeles

    I want too! I think its fun, but so far I only have my something new( wedding dress). I still have awhile before my wedding though

     
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    Chachacha    June 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    I want to. I have something new and something blue but not borrowed or old yet.

     
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    egb    January 2010  

    hmmm, I'm halfway there: the dress and jewelry are new; the shoes are borrowed.  If I happen to find something old and something blue, I will follow it, but if not, I will not go through the trouble of searching for it!

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    I'm almost there.  I still need something borrowed!!

     
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    luli29    October 9, 2010   Massachusetts

    Yes...I don't wanna mess with tradition. Hehe

     
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    whitesonnet    June 26, 2010   Detroit, MI

    Old: Does my longline bra count? I've had that for three years already. Is there a rule as to how old it should be? My earrings too. Otherwise, I'm thinking of wearing a set of pins attached with chains that I wore in my baby photos. I think I'll wear it on my bra.

    New: Dress, necklace.

    Borrowed: Veil from one of my BMs

    Blue: The first piece of jewelry FI ever gave me, an opal and sapphire necklace I'll carry on my bouquet or more safely on my bra.

     

     

     
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    BellaMae      

    I don't think I am.  I'm not very traditional or superstitious.

     
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    almostduffy    3-12-2010   socal

    On the table where people are siging the guest book I will have a collection of apothecary and bell jars and each one will hold something... old, new, borrowed, blue.

    I thought it would tie in with our eclectic, vintage theme =)

    Also as we were looking for a way to honor my mom and grandparents who have died, I am using things that were theirs.

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    alishaneva    May 2011   Lancaster, PA

    Oh I do I do ...

    I have my something old - the necklace my grandmother wore for her engagement photos. It's not the greatest, but I absolutely love it and it means alot to me.

    And I will have my something blue - I'm going with the perfect blue flats that look like pointe shoes ....

    I guess I could go with my dress or ring for something new but I'm not sold on that idea yet and I refuse to double up ...

    As for something borrowed? That's what mom's for, I'm sure she'll have something up her sleeve for that day!

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    We are not having the traditional wedding so I didn't feel the need to follow this particular one. I think everything that I will be wearing will be new.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    Yes :)

    I am very excited but still not sure what will be what ;)

     
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    Miss Yap    02/20/10   Dallas

    Almostduffy, that is a brilliant idea!

    I think I am going to do:

    Something old - my dress, I bought it secondhand

    Something new - my everything else practically

    Something borrowed - A jade bracelet my grandmother customed for my mother and gave her just before my grandmother passed. I am wearing it in rememberance of her.

    Something blue - My college roommates and I bought each other our something blue for each others wedding (we all wed within a year of each other, I am the last) and so they are giving me my something blue.

     
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    pudding      

    I think that I will probably collect these things if I happen upon them, but I'm not going to stress out about them.  I will definitely not have a six pance in my shoe!

     
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    cheerful    September 2009 - eloped  

    I didn't think I was going to have a sixpence either until an unexpected grandmother sent me one in the mail!

     
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    Blueshoes2    June 2010   PA

    I am! I have the blue (shoes), have the new (dress, veil etc), I just need borrowed and old :)

     
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    Blueshoes2    June 2010   PA

    I've never heard of the sixpence tradition, hmm

     
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    bamm    June 5th 2010/August 15th 2010   Seoul

    Since we're having an uber traditional Korean wedding in Seoul, I want the Canadian wedding to have lots of traditional elements as well.  I don't know all of them yet, but something old will be my great aunt's lace handkerchief (she has passed away), and while I was going to shred some of my father's ties to add into my bouquet (he has also passed away), I recently realized that he had a sapphire ring.  I might either try to put it in my bouquet or ask FI to wear it.  There is also an old Scottish custom about sewing a piece of hair into the hem of your wedding dress....and I might actually do it!  I will also be carrying a decorative horse shoe which is another Scottish custom.  My mum carried it when she got married, and she's passing it on to me. 

     
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    The immigrant bride    June 25, 2010   Santa Barbara, CA/Los Angeles, CA

    I have them but it wasn't on purpose:

    Old and blue: My grandma's wedding ring reset with a blue stone

    new: my dress

    borrowed: a pearl necklace and a beaded peurse from my aunt

     
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    arizonabride    June 2, 2010   Tucson, AZ

    I don't know what my old or borrowed things are yet. My blue will be a Boston Red Sox garter to surprise FI and everything I'm wearing will be new.

     
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    KellyV    September 12, 2009   New York, NY

    I did it, but not on purpose.  I would have in either case, but mine all fell into place.  My old was the lace from my moms wedding dres wrapped around the handle of my bouquet.  My new were some diamond earrings from teh hubby, I borrowed my sister's Tiffany Pearl Bracelet, and my blue were my blue shoes...but those matched my BM dresses, which is why I did it in the first place.  It just happened to fall into place =o)

     
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    lily_dsm    October 2009   Iowa/Colorado

    I did just for fun. Old: my ring (heirloom)  New: dress Borrowed & Blue: borrowed a ring from my best friend with a blue stone that she also wore on her wedding day.

     
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    VegasBaby    October 2010   Illinois

    I plan to do it for fun. So far:

    Something old: pearl earrings I recieved from my parents for my college graduation (my sister wore these at her wedding as her something borrowed)

    something new: my amazing Kate Spade shoes my friends all chipped in to get me

    something borrowed: I will be borrowing the vintage purse I gave my sister for her wedding as her something old

    something blue.....nothing yet for that.....

     
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    DaisyBride    June 1, 2009  

    I meant to but I forgot to get something borrowed.  OOPS!

     
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    Remi    04/10/2010   California

    Yep!

    Old:I'm thinking my right hand ring.  I'm not sure yet! 

    New: Dress/lingerie

    Borrowed: flower pin for my hair

    Blue: shoes!

     
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    otb    December 31, 2009   Chicago, IL

    I am.

    Something Old: the same slip my mom wore on her wedding day!

    Something New: my dress!

    Something Borrowed: the purse that my grandmother gave to my mother for her wedding day, my mom is letting me borrow it for my wedding day!

    Something Blue: pair of underwear my cousin got me for engagement party, they say "I DO" in sparklies!

     
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    Jesso    May 2, 2009  

    i did! i had all of the bases covered multiple times

    old: my great-grandmother's veil
    new: dress, shoes
    borrowed: diamond earrings, great-grandmother's sapphire bracelet (which was actually old, borrowed, AND blue!)
    blue: bracelet, bouquet

     
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    hcritton    09/06/09   Seattle, WA

    I had something new, something old and something borrowed but I rebelled against something blue because of my mother.

    Read related story here: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/weird-family-requests#post-294076

    So my mom said that she would get me something blue... and she did. And of course she had to mention that it was "Jewish blue" and I refused to wear it. It was literally like 5 minutes before I was going to walk down the aisle and it just seemed so insane.

    Looking back, I guess I could have just appeased her and worn "Jewish blue" but at the time, I just thought she was so bizarre! LOL

     
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    AutomneMariee    October 2010  

    I'm planning to!

    Old: locket from my grandmother

    New: I like the idea of exchanging presents with my fiance on our wedding day and having him give me my something new. 

    Borrowed: my friend's veil

    Blue: not sure yet - I reallllllly want to buy a sapphire right hand ring, but am resisting the temptation for now.  Maybe a blue handkerchief to wrap around my bouquet instead...

     
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    Ms. Library    July 17, 2010   Southern Maine

    Mother Library is a stickler for tradition, so it is a must that I have all four.  Here is my breakdown thus far:

    Something old and borrowed:  My grandmother is lending me the garter she wore in her wedding to my grandfather.  They were married for over fifty years.

    Something new: Obviously the dress, the shoes, the jewelry...

    Something blue: My "sexy little bride" undies and my shoes!

     
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    I had left my sixpence in my clutch but didn't even realize it because my wedding shoes were missing until literally 5 minutes before I walked down the aisle! I wouldn't have even had shoes to put it in! But thankfully I still had my sixpence with me that day since it was in my clutch anyways. :)

     

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