- 5 years ago
We were away the past weekend with another two couples. Friday night we had dinner, we chatted for a while and were all laughing and what not. FI is kind of a joker, so he jokes all the time about everything, but he also sometimes says stuff that doesn’t even make sense while trying to be funny. At some point we were all laughing and he said something that didn’t make sense so I said to him laughing “sometimes you say the stupidest things” (yes I know, I shouldn’t have, but it was not a big deal right then and there). After a while us ladies went off to bed while the men stayed a bit longer. When he came in the room he didn’t say anything about my comment and we actually talked about other things and then went to bed. The next day he got angry because he needed to use the bathroom and I wasn’t finished in there, I offered to let him use it but he said he was going to closure the bathroom for a good 2 hours, so I said let me hurry up and finish then. That’s all it took, he got super angry and then brought up my comment, I said ok I agree with you but you should’ve said something last night if it mattered that much to you (we decided that it was best for us to vent our issues when they happened and not to pile them up and vent 5-6 issues all at one). He just wasn’t having it and left the room. Then at some point I just tried to act normal around him just to let the fight pass by, because I thought it was silly and really not worth ruining our weekend. Well he blew me off all day long, during all my attempts to just patch things up I even apologized but none of it worked. Sunday when we work up I sent him a kiss through whatsapp and he actually returned the kiss so I then thought it was all left behind. WRONG, the ride back home was silent, when I spoke to him all I got was “yes- no” and other monosyllabic responses. By then I was just fed up by the whole thing I mean yes I screwed up but I said I was sorry and tried several times to make up. We had a family dinner (on my side) and on the way over there he suddenly decided it wasn’t worth it for him to put the effort of attending, and that’s when all hell broke loose. I think he just went to far by not going with me when we had already said we were both going, I was left there to make up an excuse for him and telling all my family why he couldn’t make it on a Sunday. Now the tables have turned and I’m just so mad at him I couldn’t care less what he has to say. He called me late last night and I didn’t answer, I am just so angry that he took it that far and as I said to him I already apologized and tried to make things better and all I got was his crap the entire day so I’ve had enough. What do you think bees, did he cross the line? Have your SO pulled something like this? How did you overcome it? Thanks!!!