(Closed) sometimes i don't get men…seriously =

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

@linssi:  Would you have liked him to say yes in front of you? There goes the surprise! Don’t think anything of it girl. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@linssi:  

Aw, I think that’s sweet.

Man talk for getting married soon: “within the next couple months.”

Woman talk for getting married soon: “well, after the ring, then I need at least a year to plan, maybe eighteen months because a lot of my family/his family/our college friends will have to travel, and I definitely need a Saturday, and venue of choice is already booked well into next year, so yeah, we haven’t set a solid date yet, but probably early 2014!”

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@linssi:  Aw I wouldn’t worry about the “NO” part! I know my SO is proposing soon and he STILL tells his friends NO when they ask. I wanted to punch him the other night at a bar with a bunch of our frends. One friend asked ” Have any plans on getting married soon?” And so said ” No why would I ruin things?” I know he’s only doing it to throw me off but I still wanted to hit him haha

 

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You said you wanted/needed at least a year to plan. So the wedding is at least a year or more away, perhaps that’s what he meant?

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

@Elvis:  I agree. One year from now probably doesn’t qualify as “soon” to him. Just be happy no one asked if you were getting engaged soon! 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

“Are you getting married soon?” and “Are you poping the question soon?” are two very different questions

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