Post # 1
Hello FB Friends!
Yes I am getting married; NO you are probably not invited. So stop putting on my wall “I can’t wait to get an invitation” or ” I better be invited to your wedding” or “I will send you my address for my invitation” because you are not invited. You would most definitley know if you were. Thanks and have a great day!
I know it sounds soooo rude and I might get attacked for this but come on people weddings are expensive and we haven’t seen each other in 5 years. Maybe I need to de-friend some people…
Just had to vent!
Post # 3
Oh man, that would make me angry too. It’s so passive-aggressive and presumptuous. (Not what you want to post, but what people are doing to you!)
Post # 4
This can turn into a fun post:
Back right off ! I conceded to you for the wedding but I am a grown, married woman now so post one more hurtful thing on my wall and I will BLOCK YOU ! lol
Block them instead and then they can’t find you on FB ever again or try to send you a nasty message, lol ! I don’t understand why some people don’t understand the Bride and Groom get to decide the guest list. That’s it, that’s all !
Post # 5
Oh, I know! I actually was thinking of posting something like “While you’re all great friends, my wedding will be very small and I can’t invite all of you”. Although, I think I’m not going to bother. Really I want to tell people that if I don’t talk to you and we haven’t hung out in OVER THREE YEARS, you’re probably not invited.
Post # 6
Ahhh, yes. People can be TOTALLY obnoxious about weddings over FB. I was almost afraid to change my relationship status to engaged, because I KNEW it was coming. :/ Buh. And honestly, I’ve felt like posting that EXACT thing! I just didn’t respond. At all.
I think it’s worse when it’s in person though. I hate the awkward moments and the “can’t wait for your big day” comments. Um… yeah me either?
Post # 7
I felt the same way when I first got engaged. I just wouldn’t respond to those people.
Now I want to put: “If you did not send in your RSVP by now, don’t come.” LOL It is 3 weeks past the deadline. I don’t think it is fair for me and my vendors to scramble around trying to accomodate rude people. I have tried emailing, texting, calling, and facebooking people. I feel that if they respond now, it is because their original plans fell thru and they are using us as a back up.
Post # 8
“I am allowing you to be ‘friends’ with me so you can stalk me virtually. Please don’t stalk me in real life too”
Post # 9
Dear Facebook Friends:
Yes I did get married. That’s why my profile picture is me in a wedding dress and my last name is different. But thank you for your OMG did you just get MarRieD?!?! comment.
Post # 10
People are so crazy! I haven’t had anyone post anything like that to my facebook page – but I’ve had some people say it in person! I can’t believe it. I NEVER expect a wedding invitation except for close family members and close, close friends.
Post # 11
Haha my FI’s cousin did this on his FB page. She lives in NC, yes she is family, but we’ve been together for 4 years and I’ve never met her or her parents. And unfortunately we added them to the list after that post. Originally only her parents were invited….OY.
Post # 12
@jedeve: HAHA! Someone sent FH a pm like that when we got engaged. “OMG, are you really engaged?” He said “yes”. lol We were sitting next to each other when he checked his facebook.
Post # 13
Haha ya, you’ve got to love those! I keep getting, “So I haven’t got my invite yet. Do you think it might be lost in the mail?” Ummm nope, you’re just not invited!
Post # 14
Ha! I just love the “surprised” OMG comments. I mean, really? You didn’t see it coming after 3 years and living together? Then you obviously didn’t pay enough attention PRE-engagement. Maybe THAT is why you aren’t invited. 😉
Dear FB Friends,
CHILL THE EFFFFF OUT. It’s not a trick.
Post # 16
@arclee: LOL I Love that one!!