Sometimes waiting sucks…

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
580 posts
Busy bee

I hear you! I have secret jealous moments every time I think about people who did not know eachother for long and then got married before us, or got engaged after us but planned their wedding before us. Obviously it’s not their fault we are having a long engagement and we wanted to wait until I was out of school to get married! But I just want to be married to my best friend/FI already, and it kinda sucks when you see people make it there before you. 

I wish I could say it gets easier! but at least you know your time is coming 🙂 keep your chin up, buttercup! 

Post # 4
Member
12262 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Jealousy is a totally natural human emotion!

I hope it’s your turn soon!

Post # 5
Member
567 posts
Busy bee

It does when SO won’t tell you when he plans on proposing other than it not being tomorrow (possibly next year but who knows.  Not a good waiting week for me either.

Post # 6
Member
1542 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I think everyone who has dealt with the *waiting* has felt jealous at one point or another!

Can’t wait to hear your proposal story 🙂

Post # 8
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2037 posts
Buzzing bee

@CarolinaPeach13:  OMG well it sounds like you have a lot to be excited about!!  I would stay focused on the fact that it sounds like it’s going to happen for you by the end of the year—THAT’S GREAT!!

Sometimes waiting sucks and I know that more than anyone.  It sucks more when you hear about people you know getting engaged..I know lol.  I probably won’t be getting engaged for another year or so at best and it just hurts to think of waiting that long.

At least it will be happening for you soon!

Hang in there and good luck!

Post # 9
Member
2125 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

This summer 3 of my friends got engaged. That was and still is tough. Seeing Facebook updates on their wedding plans makes me want that too. My SO and I are headed in that direction, but still. 

Luckily, it sounds like you won’t be waiting much longer! Hopefully you will enter 2014 as a fiancé! Good luck and keep your chin up. 

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