somewhat of a spinoff.. If I can't wear F*$&( jeans to your wedding..

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3197 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@tootsweet:  That dress will work for a spring wedding.  

Post # 4
42157 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@tootsweet:  JS Collections Split-Sleeve Embroidered Dresscute dress- will be perfect for spring wedding

Post # 5
871 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@tootsweet:  My wedding will be semi-formal and I think that dress is perfect! For the super formal one I would go with a floor length dress like some of these that are simple and easily used again and again. DB has a lot under “special occassions”


Post # 7
1739 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@julies1949:  this dress is super cute – just male sure its not in white. Picture it looks light pink – which is great.

Post # 9
1248 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@tootsweet:  If they are keeping it a secret they can hardly get cranky with anyone for wearing their colours! (I wouldnt’ care if someone wore my wedding colours anyway)

Post # 10
3653 posts
Sugar bee

@tootsweet:  So funny. After my grandmother showed my sister the dress she was thinking of wearing to her wedding (short), my sister let it slip that she’d be the only grandmother in a short dress (black tie wedding). She then went out and bought a long dress in dark purple; yup, the bridesmaids were wearing dark purple gowns (it wasn’t a secret, either). Of course she just had to say “don’t I look just like a bridesmaid?” Nope, she just looked foolish (and she wasn’t in any of the bridal party photos).

Post # 12
7290 posts
Busy Beekeeper

@tootsweet:  Wear whatever you want, what makes you comfortable. The bride and groom should be more interested in you attending than what you wear. I mean that is the thing that I remember about my wedding, all the people who came and certainly not what they were wearing.

Post # 15
430 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

Wear something that you believe you look good in, that you can dance in, and that is fancy enough that you wouldn’t want to wear it to work. Don’t wear white. Don’t dress like a slob. Now is not the occasion to “dress up” a pair of skinny jeans.

Post # 16
114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

If they are keeping it a secret, then you are off the hook for worrying about wearing “their” color.  Just don’t wear white (and I wouldn’t wear black unless it a very fancy cocktail type affair). 


As an aside, to someone who has done this (kept the color as a secret) – WHY??? I really am curious. 

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