- 5 years ago
i just really needed to vent before i blow up on someone, i just found myself snapping at my son then i remembered its my SO whose the a-hole here and apologized, its best to vent this out through writing.
ive known my SO for 5 years, through out that time we have always lived apart. 2 months ago i moved to a different city for school, its about 40 mins away from SO.
there is no public transportation here, you pretty much have to have a car and my car isnt always reliable. my SO is a workaholic, i dont see him much at all. our contact is mainly through phone and text. last week my tire went flat, ive never changed a tire in my life
(something i really need to learn now) so i ask my SO if he could come out today since it is his day off to help me change it out. he assured me that he would be off today and he would come over and help me. so i wait and i wait, i finally broke down and called him at 1pm, no answer.
2pm i get a text from him ‘be here soon’ so im thinking ‘ok, not going anywhere “obviously” i waited some more.
3:45pm comes, i realize hes not coming “soon” at this point im beyond heated..
i send a text saying ‘soon huh?’ he calls me 15 mins later telling me hes in a bad mood, and “do you still need me to come over?’
all i could think is “are you effing kidding me right now!?” i ripped him a new one and told him i dont need his kindof help anymore, ill just call someone else.
at this point i dont want to talk to him, i need sometime to cool down. he knew i needed this tire fixed today, we’re running out of groceries, i have to get a money order for rent due thursday all of this spells URGENT.
but he took his time anyway. this is making me see him in a different light now. thanks for letting me vent. feel a little better now.