Soooo furious at my brother…

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
3047 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@bombaysapphire_13: Being in a somewhat similar situation when it comes to my brother, I understand how heart breaking and difficult this must be for you! However, if you mostly feel anger thinking about your brother, I think it’s for the best that you step away from him. You don’t necessarily have to tell him that you’re breaking contact, but try not to expose yourself to him for a little while so that you get time to process things. Then you can decide how to move forward from that point on. Good luck!

Post # 4
1634 posts
Bumble bee

I agree that space might be best right now. You can tell him that you love him and really wish your relationship was better but that you cant be the only one making an effort. You’ll still be family, and you will have a relationship with your nephew but until he can meet you halfway you cant continue working on the relationship. Im so sorry, I know its painful. I used to be really close to my brother but then he got married and now is so wrapped up in his new little family. It’s like we’re a distant memory, we’re old news. its heartbreaking.

If you want to try one more time to talk things out, be sure to set some boundaries. If you pour your heart out and he responds negatively tell him you will be happy to have a relationship when he puts in some effort too.

I’m so sorry… brothers suck… 🙁

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