(Closed) Sorry if I’m not “churchy” enough :/

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3601 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

“No, but thank you for your suggestion. I appreciate that you value this wedding.”

Memorize it.

Post # 6
1124 posts
Bumble bee

I’d try REALLY HARD to be polite, but ultimately I’d just end up telling everyone to shove it.


Post # 7
5655 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’ll have to check my bookshelf but I actually got a book on preparing for your wedding with God… (don’t stop reading yet)

And one of the things I liked best about it is how the author said that

[paraphrase: Bringing God into your wedding is NOT about what you do or don’t do but where He is in your heart, mind, spirit, and likewise with you FH…. You can have all the “ritual” or image you want but if YOU don’t bring HIm then He’s not coming]

Fiance and I are very religious (or very close to God & are involved in Church) but we aren’t having “worship music” through our reception (which my Grandmother asked about) or really even through our ceremony (except for 1 song that WE wanted) or anything else “religious”

We know that God is there because we’re bring Him, and that should be okay with our Guests

I would just let them know that He will be there b/c you and your Fiance are commmiting yourselves to each other with Him and that’s enough for ya’ll

Post # 8
104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Do what you feel is right. It is YOUR & FI’s wedding. Explain that you respect there opinion and thank them, then move on. 

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