Sorry not Sorry…

posted 3 years ago in Elopement
Post # 3
682 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013


Post # 4
449 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@livingthelifemommyandwife:   oh you should see the flack “fake” weddings get on other wedding websites! Ithimk you should rock on with yo bad self! If my cats would behave they would be in the wedding party. I dont think there is any formula that fits all brides. Someone hates my cash bar and money dance. I hate that they give me flack when they spent money on dressing the chairs. Different strokes!!

Post # 5
1112 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

To each their own i say! And it’s not hurting anyone! And it’s not taking anything awa from anyone! So yah, i agree.

Post # 6
39 posts
  • Wedding: October 2013

Different strokes for different folks! If anyone has a problem with it they can stay home and miss out on the awesome party and cake 🙂

Post # 9
6407 posts
Bee Keeper

I think as long as your guests know that you already had the ceremony and this is the wedding reception, there’s nothing at all wrong or “fake” about it.

Post # 10
789 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

We’ve had our big wedding planned as well and last year decided to have a small ceremony to make it legal to get paperwork started (he’s canadian, im american). I didn’t care if everyone found out but MIL insisted we keep it a secret. It’s made things interesting the last 9 months and lots of, “are you wearing your wedding band?” conversations before going to family functions. 

A lot of my friends and old coworkers know because I couldn’t keep my mouth shut and MIL’s siblings have told us for months to just go get married at the courthouse to start paperwork, who cares. 

If I wasn’t living with my inlaws I’d probably have told everyone by now. It sucks not being able to share something so happy and exciting with the world. 

Post # 11
8850 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

I agree.  

And I’ll go so far as to say, if you had to get married at an inopportune time somewhat recently for a purely lega/logistical reason (eg to get your spouse on your health insurance before theirs ran out, 1 month before the wedding), you DON’T need to tell anyone else that.

Post # 12
129 posts
Blushing bee

@livingthelifemommyandwife:  I hear you- Loud & Clear!

We got married three years ago at city hall. We are now planning our wedding, with my big white dress and all! I couldn’t care less what people think. Everyone knows we are married and if they don’t agree with us haing another wedding, well, the r.s.v.p. card have a little spot where they can decline. It’s out day, our ceremony, our vows, our memories, our pictures, our video, our first dance..(we’ve never danced together because we always wanted our first dance to be at our wedding…)

Who cares! Be happy! We are!

Best wishes!!!

Post # 16
1626 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Little_Hedgy:  I was totally going to have my kitties in bow ties and strap on top hats. Because that’s how I roll. They’d probably freak the hell out but if we could just get one good picture…..

OP, you go girl!!! <3 Keep on with your bad self and enjoy the hell out of your WEDDING!!!!! 😀 😀 Congraaaaaaats! <3

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