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I broke the news to my girls that were not in the wedding party by asking them to do something else (One is doing everyone's hair the day of and another is doing the photography - you could have her maybe do a reading or ask her to make a toast..?). They got the picture after that and are actually excited about their new roles.
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Hey Hive,
I'm having a bit of an issue letting a cousin know that she's not going to be a bridesmaid in my upcoming wedding. We were some what close when we were little saying that we're going to be in each other's weddings but have grown up.
The day has come that I'm engaged and getting married and she's automatically assuming she's a bridesmaid. How do I break the news to her that I've made my bridesmaid selection on girls who have been supportive of me in endeavours and wedding planning process.
P.S. My FI usually doesn't get into such matters but he didn't think that she deserved to be a bridesmaid because she's not very supportive of me but I'm always in her corner. He said that I should include her as well especially if she may not be able to foot the bill for her dress or chip in for a shower/party.
Please help.