(Closed) sort of an awkward position-communal room

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Maybe ask the other girls if it would make them uncomfortable and if yes tell the couple they have to get their own room.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Just tell her no. It’s totally reasonable to not want any men to stay in the room with you all.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee

It’s obviously making YOU uncomfortable, so just say no.  “I’m sorry, BM, it’s going to be a “ladies only” room.  I’m sure you understand.”

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

Are you staying in there as well? Every wedding I’ve been in including my own was girls only the night before the wedding. It’s a fun time for just the bridesmaids to hang out together. She should understand that.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Definitely not- the other girls would feel so awkward, and it’s meant to give you girl time before the big day!!!!

 

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

considering YOUR paying for the room, you get to decide who stays in there, if your not comfortable, and dont wanna make your other BMs uncomfortable, then i would def tell her that hes NOT allowed to stay in there…

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I ditto PPs. Tell her that it is a “ladies only” room and that maybe the BF an share a room with the other BFs who aren’t staying in the room. Hopefulyl once she realizes that the other BFs aren’t staying there she will get the picture.

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