- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
I just want to say thank you to all of those that gave advice and perspective to my situation on the original thread. I haven’t used this alter ego since that thread was shut down. But I logged back in today and saw messages full of advice and support. This truly is a wonderful network of women, and I can’t thank all of you enough. The virtual hugs went a long way when I couldn’t open up about this in person with those closest to me.
As for an update, my fiance did admit that he shouldn’t pressure me into doing something that I don’t want to do; that it was wrong of him to try to use oral sex and swallowing (or lack thereof) as leverage in our relationship; and that he’s willing to work this out because I’m the one that he wants to be with. Both of our schedules are pretty crazy right now, but we’re hoping to start counseling before the end of the summer. And I’m confident that we’ll work through this together
Again, thank you for the kinds words, the keep-it-real advice, and just being there to help a fellow Bee out. Your support really helped me work through an emotionally trying situation.
I wish all of you a wonderful day!