(Closed) Sort of Spin Off- Your first time

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Haha, that cracked me up. 

I was lucky.  We were both each other’s firsts, we were in love and were both 16.  It really was a beautiful and moving experience.  It was in the woods on a blanket under the trees on a summer day.  I wouldn’t change one thing about it. 

Except riding back home on the back of his motorcycle.  Ouchies – wasn’t thinking that far ahead.  I had to put one of his socks in my crotch to soak up the blood. 

But other than that, my first time was wonderful and perfectly romantic!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Mine was just plain awkward.

 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

FI and I are each other’s first – and it hurt like hell the first time for me. It wasn’t particularly awkward; we knew each other’s bodies by then, but it wasn’t super romantic either (mostly because of the pain).

It was worth it, though!

 

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

AWKwaarrddd.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Mine was really, really amazing.  It was both our first time, on our honeymoon, with me still in my wedding dress.  We had done enough beforehand that we semi-knew what we were doing too.  It was really special, and I wouldn’t change a thing!

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

It wasn’t horrible. He was my high school sweetheart, we were both virgins. He was really good with his hands, and made sure I got off twice before penetration occured. The actual sex was pretty meh, though. It hurt (I cried a little), and didn’t last more than a minute or two. I still think of it very fondly, though. It definitely could have been a lot worse. And the sex definitely got better with practice. He still ranks in my Top 3 lovers. 

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@subbywife11:  Oh my, you were still wearing your wedding dress?? Sorry if TMI, but weren’t you worried about staining? 

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Mine was hmmm…. weird and very awkward! He was experienced and I was naive and and gullable and well it happened, I felt so stupid after words.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I’ll just go ahead & say that mine was less than romantic. . .

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Mine was less than spectacular. I fall into the line of he was experienced I wasnt. I was like WTH I didnt think it would be that umm hmmph big. Oh if i could turn back the clock

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Oh god, so awkward and painful. He wasn’t experienced and had obviously gotten all his moves from porn, which equaled OUCH. He got upset with me for not getting off by him just putting it in. Ah, good times.

 @Mrs Sarah McK:  I immediately had the same question!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

All I have to say is: two virgins in a red minivan on the side of a suburban road.

Ah, to be young again….

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Mine was pretty fantastic.

It was with my FI, then boyfriend and it was our first time–we didn’t intend to “wait” or anything, it just worked out that way. We knew what to expect, we built up to it, we waited until we were 100% ready to go for it, went away for the weekend to a romantic cabin and it actually felt pretty good, which was nice surprise!

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Awkward… Less than pleasant… Yep.

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