SO's friends wedding is driving me crazy!!

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
45270 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

ksn1219:  Your SO has the option to decline.

Post # 3
582 posts
Busy bee

ksn1219:  “I’m guy B’s fiances MOH and she is pissed so she’s not even going and kicked guy B out of her wedding already.”

Guy B’s fiance kicked Guy B out of her wedding?

Your SO can always turn down the invite to Guy A’s wedding if he chooses. It sounds like a pretty casual, last minute wedding. I’m guessing no-one got invitations? Is it possible they have to have a rapid wedding because of some upcoming event? Anyone pregnant or joining the military?

Post # 5
549 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

If it’s just a quick, casual wedding I don’t see the problem. Sometimes people don’t think it needs to be a big thing. Maybe they just want a backyard BBQ and they happen to get married. As far as attire, your SO can probably just wear a suit he owns.

If this has actually been planned since September and everyone got invitations except you two, that’s weird. Maybe the wedding is all about her (their relationship sounds a little strange if he hasn’t even told his BFF of 16 years her full name) and she just invited all her family and friends and not his.

Either way, I don’t think it’s something you need to stress over. Since you never got an invitation you certainly don’t need to feel bad about not attending.

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