(Closed) Soulmates?!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Soulmates?!
    I believe in soulmates. : (13 votes)
    5 %
    I do not believe in soulmates. : (92 votes)
    37 %
    SO/FI/DH is my soulmate. : (79 votes)
    31 %
    SO/FI/DH is one of my soulmates. : (37 votes)
    15 %
    SO/FI/DH is not my soulmate. : (9 votes)
    4 %
    I don't know/Unsure. : (21 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    2143 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    I’m not sure how I feel about it. But I do beleive that my Fiance and I are about as compatible as any 2 people could be, and at times it seems a stretch for that to be a coincidence.

    Post # 4
    4693 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I don’t believe in soul mates.

    Post # 5
    5288 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2010

    I do not believe in the concept of being two parts of one soul separated into two genders and rejoined, or Plato’s version, but I certainly do believe in concept that there are people that you can meet up with who connect with you on a very deep “soul” level, like no one else. In other words, I believe it is possible according to the Wikipedia definition (not the historical usage):


    Yes, I do believe my husband is my soulmate. I actually really did not used to believe in the idea at all but, as cheesy as it is, now I do. There may be more out there but he is only one I found so far with who I have *this* connection with and I have no desire to keep looking. We connect on a very deep level – emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually and so forth. I have therefore chosen him to be my soulmate, at least! I really do feel blessed to have met him, and think we have something very special, whatever the term applied to it.

    Post # 6
    2164 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @Happy Hopeful Bee:  I don’t believe in soul-mates…I actually really dislike the term, too mushy-gushy for me. I do believe that people can be perfect for one another, and should Fiance and I break up ever, I 100% believe that I’d never feel the same way about anyone else…but still don’t believe in soul-mates. Weird? Today while driving I actually saw a license plate that read “4mysolm8” and wanted to puke on them hahahaha

    Post # 7
    1856 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    I don’t necessary not believe in the concept of soulmates, but I firmly do not think that there is only one person out of there for any of us. I love my SO. He’s my match, we are very compatible and we clicked the instant we met. But my two best friends? They’re also my matches, and we’ve clicked from the beginning. These are all people I connect with deeply. If something ended my relationship with my SO, I would be heartbroken and I do think it would feel almost impossible to move on. But I do think that it’s absolutely possible that I could meet someone else I could connect with on that level.

    Post # 8
    208 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Yes and no, depending on your definition.  I think that out there in the world there are a number of people that I could be happilly compatible with for the rest of my life in terms of our personalities, life experiences, goals, chemistry, etc.  The thing is, I happened to meet one of those men at a time in my life when I was ready to meet him and he just so happened to be ready to meet me.  We have also spent the last five years building our lives together and developing a love that I know I will never have with anyone else.  I could walk down the street tomorrow and bump into another one of those possible guys, but it will be too late.  I have already found my ‘one’.

    Post # 9
    4606 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    The only person that I might have considered my soulmate is no longer a part of my life.

    I do love FH but it’s different.

    Post # 10
    1737 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @RayKay: I think you summed it up perfectly!

    Post # 11
    879 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I believe in Soulmates.  But I DO NOT believe that you only have one soulmate, and if you can’t find them that you miss out.

    My partner and I relate to each other on a level either of us have never experienced before.  We know each other almost better than we know ourselves.  He can read me so easily, if I try to hide being upset, he can pick still pick it.  We are very tuned in to each other.  We care about each other.  When the other is upset, we feel their pain and heartache. 

    I believe this makes him my soulmate.  But I do not believe that I would not be able to get this same connection with someone else on this planet should I want to get to know someone that well.

    Post # 12
    2522 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I don’t believe in soulmates.

    Post # 14
    1576 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Most people misunderstand the concept of soulmates. IF you believe in reincarntion (and I do), people tend incarnate together in groups. Over and over and over again. . Soulmates can be anybody – teachers, siblings, family members, friends, lovers, spouses, children, enemies, etc. If the person is sensitive enough, one “recognizes” soulmate almost instaneously.

    What most people think of as a soulmate is often a twin soul and it is rare indeed to run into one of them.

    Post # 15
    1319 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    Thank you! I always felt awkward because I don’t describe Darling Husband as my soulmate. I realise that we are so similar on a deeper level than hobbies and likes/dislikes, and I feel that makes us understand each other in a way very few people really can. But I firmly believe I could have felt this way about someone else had I met them instead. Not anyone else, but Darling Husband isn’t the only person in the world that could be my match. He’s the one I found, and the one that made me decide I was finished looking. 🙂

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