Spin off: Did anyone get their dream partner?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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4043 posts
Honey bee

I never had a “dream” partner in my mind and I don’t really believe in the idea. I always wanted a relationship and marriage where both are equally supported, respected and loved. We have that together and I am quite happy.

Post # 3
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1392 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Uh, yeah! He’s devilishly handsome, hilarious, ridiculously romantic, great in the sack, calm when I’m hungry, slow and cautious when I’m wild and uninhibited, and he has a beard. What more could you ask for?!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: TBD

I couldn’t have dreamed up a more perfect man than my dearest FI. He’s simply the best. Perfect in his flaws and perfect for me! 🙂 

Post # 5
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1049 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I never thought I would end up with a man like I have. I was always a plus size gal not really popular in highschool but I was super outgoing. We met at work and were FWB for the longest. He was a jock playes every sport. In shape. Funny. Not out going that much. He’s my opposite. He’s the pb to my jelly. 

He babies me. He trusts me. He believes in me. He loves me, god does he love me. I can see it in his eyes. he is so emotional when it comes to me and our daughter. If anything ever happened to us it would ruin him. He’s so perfect. He’s a pain in my ass a lot but god is be perfect. I am sooooo blessed to have. Man like him. He does eceruthing he can for us. I could never say enough how much I appreciate Him. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Also yes! Although he is the complete opposite of what I thought I wanted.  Don’t have a list ladies!!!

He is handsome, kind, generous, tolerant and always says yes to new adventures! He is my favourite person. 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Bridey77:  

I never had a dream husband because I never believed that I would marry until I met my husband.

My husband is a wonderful man because:

  • He tells me that he loves me every single day.
  • He sends romantic texts every day. 
  • He spoils me in any way that he can.
  • He gives great advice.
  • He can admit when he’s wrong.
  • He is an amazing lover.
  • He accepts me for who I am.
  • He helps me heal from trauma with love and devotion-such a patient guy!
  • He reminds me to take care of myself instead of always looking out for others.
  • He’s helping me laugh and enjoy life more.
Post # 9
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53 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

You know that guy you see in sappy romance movies that you don’t think actually exists…. I’m marrying that 😉

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

My DH has been away since Monday. This is the longest we’ve ever been apart, which I know I am luckier than some women on here in that aspect. However, the time apart has made me realize even more how much I love myDH and how much he means to me. He is definitely my perfect partner. 

Post # 11
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Helper bee

I’ve never been a sappy or romantic kind of lady so I’ve never thought about a “dream guy” or this ideal soul mate person. Honestly I just wanted a man to be great in bed, have a good head on his shoulders, and make me laugh and that’s what I have so I’m happy. I think we choose who we love and make it work. 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Bridey77:  

I am the loud extrovert and my husband is a quiet introvert.

He calms me down and anchors me while I provide excitement for my husband. 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

Bridey77:  YES. We are absolutely one-in-a-million soul mates, I feel like we have our own entire secret world together. I always wonder if other couples have what we have (maybe everyone does, idk). We laugh constantly, actually the other day a guy in our building saw us in the hall and was like, “oh! you’re the couple that’s always laughing!” We have some different interests, but lots of overlapping interests and hobbies (so enough different to stay interesting, enough in common to “get” each other). We have similar worldviews, we’re both introverts, we have the same sense of humor, and we want the same kind of life. I know it’s cheesy but we also just have this really intense chemistry. Often when we meet new people we get asked how long we’ve been together, or people reference that we’re just in that “new relationship glow”- when we tell them we’ve been together for 6 years they are totally floored. I honestly feel like the luckiest person in the world. I didn’t think I’d be someone who’d have a love of their life, but I do! It’s crazy what can happen when you wander into the right bar one night.

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