SPIN OFF: having feelings for other men…

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Did you at any point have feelings for another person while engaged?
    Yes : (62 votes)
    27 %
    No : (171 votes)
    73 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3389 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @Laurenskii:  Right? I’m amazed as Well. I’m interested in seeing what everyone has to say here.

    Post # 5
    Member
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @Laurenskii:  Absolutely not. Have I noticed attractive men or thought to myself, “he’s very good looking?” Of course I have. But did I actually want to pursue anything with them, sexually or otherwise? No. I committed to my man with my mind, body, and heart. That means I am not looking anymore or interested in what else is out there.

    Post # 6
    Member
    4367 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    For me, my husband already pisses me the fuck off.  I love him and I am committed to him.  And I don’t want to put up with someone else’s shit, no matter how nice they are to me.  I rather just get divorced and like, buy cats.

     

    ETA: I meant that I took the good with the bad.  And just because I am having an emotional day doesn’t mean I am chasing the first tail that I see.  That shows a profound lack in emotional maturity.  And EVERY relationship has their problems.

     

     

     

    Post # 8
    Member
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @deetroitwhat:  +1. If this whole marriage thing doesn’t work out, I’m sticking with dogs.

    Post # 9
    Member
    1872 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Being married/engaged doesn’t remove my humanity so I’ll always notice other men and have feelings for them occasionally. It doesn’t MEAN anything. I don’t actually want to pursue anything else. I’m 100% committed to my husband.

    Post # 11
    Member
    4367 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @MrsPanda99:  Right, then I don’t have to pick which one lives if we’re all drowining in a lake.  Haha.  Now that would be interesting… who do you save, hubby or boyfriend?

    PUHLEAZE.  Find your way to Ashley Madison or Craiglist, not Weddingbee.

    Post # 12
    Member
    11300 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @Birdi:  Same.

    I haven’t. We’ve been together for five years. I don’t even notice other guys anymore, unless they have a specific feature that stands out. Feelings? Not at all.

    Post # 14
    Member
    5932 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    @Laurenskii:  We were engaged for like…three seconds, so there really wasn’t time for me to notice anyone, but as a married woman, there have been a few times in our marriage when I find my mind wandering to someone else…it never lasts and sooner or later the person in question says or does something so monumentally wrong and awful that I wonder what I was even thinking in the first place….I’m not so innocent to believe that Mr. 99 hasn’t been tempted in his own right as well….but I certainly wouldn’t go so far as to say I ever had feelings for one of these flirtations…its a rush of lust and a reminder that as devoted and in love with Mr. 99 as I am, the threat to our marriage is not to be taken lightly…you have to be careful with yourself when you’re a Mrs…..

    Post # 15
    Member
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @vorpalette:  You said it better than me. I am not constantly drooling over hot men, but I happen to like nice eyes. I notice if guys have nice eyes. That doesn’t mean I want to jump their bones the first chance I get though.

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