(Spin-Off) Merry Chri- Er, Happy Holidays?

posted 3 years ago in Holidays
  • poll: What phrase(s) are you NOT offended by this time of year?
    Happy Holidays ONLY- don't wish my a single specific holiday, it's rude : (22 votes)
    8 %
    Merry Christmas/Happy Kwanza/Happy Hanukkah/etc- it's what I celebrate, it better be what I'm wished : (28 votes)
    11 %
    Oh, whatever, they're all well wishes. It doesn't matter! : (211 votes)
    80 %
    Other (explain) : (4 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1749 posts
    Bumble bee

    I don’t get offended by “Happy Hannukah!” and so forth, so I consider it a non-issue. At work I do make sure to say “Happy Holidays!” unless someone says “Merry Christmas!” first. That’s just because I want to be PC while reppin’ my company.

    Post # 4
    Member
    8518 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    I dont really care.

    But I do think its absolutely RIDICULOUS to get mad about people/companies saying “happy holidays.” Not everyone celebrates Christmas. Get over it.

    This is not geared towards you, OP! I didnt want you to think I was for some reason raging at you. Haha.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1002 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    People are dumb.

     

    It’s not a big deal IMO.

    Post # 7
    Member
    3222 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    I don’t care if a stranger says it to me, and I usually say it back! 

    What does irritate me is when people are incredulous about why my family doesn’t celebrate Christmas. I’ve definitely been hassled about it before, and I don’t even know how to respond. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    10493 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2011

    Not everyone celebrates holidays.  It comes from holy days.  I think as long as it has good intentions, it’s best to just take it as a friendly greeting.  I say Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, etc. to people, but I also try to say the greeting for someone’s specific holiday if I happen to know it.  I also say Merry Christmas when I do a mini-celebration on Jan 6th, even if their Christmas is over.

    Post # 9
    Member
    448 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    I don’t care.

    That said no one has EVER said Happy Holidays to me, that particular gem hasn’t made it in the UK and it would be seriously weird to say it to someone

    Post # 10
    Member
    4218 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    someone wishing me well is nothing to get offended over. I think it’s ridiculous to get offended by someone wishing you a merry Christmas etc. as if we should all be psychic and know everyone’s beliefs. Just say thank you and move on. 

    Post # 11
    Member
    1355 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013 - Vine Street Church

    I’m fine with whatever, but I prefer to say Happy Holidays unless someone says something different to me first.

    Post # 12
    Member
    5544 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2011

    If I know what specific winter festival one celebrates, I will say that. But as long as it isnt intentionally snarky and rude, I am going to say”Thanks, you too!” To whatever well wishes someone gives me with good intentions.  

    Post # 13
    Member
    2372 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

    @HappySky7:  +1 exactly! How are we supposed to know?

    Wish me whatever you want, I know you intended well and that was nice of you to send me warm wishes!

    And no I also don’t get offended when companies say “Happy Holidays” either, because they probably have to be PC, and also its a blanket way of wishing EVERYONE what they celebrate, in a way. Cover all your bases in one phrase lol.  I don’t think they are shunning that I celebrate Christmas.

    Post # 14
    Member
    1289 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I don’t see the issue. So I don’t really care. I am not easily offended though.

    Post # 15
    Member
    511 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Now when someone says “Happy Holidays!” it sounds too much like “Happy Hungergames!” to me 😛

    But seriously, since I celebrate Christmas, the dominant holiday around here, I don’t mind whatever people wish me. But I have sympathy for my friends of other religions who get sick of Christmas being shoved in their faces this time of year. It makes them feel overlooked and left out and I can understand why.

    Post # 16
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    1613 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    To me, it’s the intention of well wishes, not the details.  So, any winter greeting is just fine by me, although I generally will use “merry christmas” unless I know specifically that the person I’m greeting celebrates otherwise.  “Happy Holidays” doesn’t offend me at all, it’s inclusive of all so I don’t know what there would be to be upset about.

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