Spin Off- Sex in the Workplace (or school)

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Have you slept with/engaged in oral sex with a coworker or your boss?
    No : (42 votes)
    47 %
    Yes : (18 votes)
    20 %
    Yes, and I'm marrying him/her! : (16 votes)
    18 %
    No, but I know someone who has. : (11 votes)
    12 %
    I have slept with or had oral sex with a teacher. : (2 votes)
    2 %
    I have slept with or had oral sex with a coach. : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    10219 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Coworkers is one thing.

    Sleeping with someone of authority another (which is exactly WHY most companies have policies against such practices)

    In my teens / 20s when I was in my “exploring life” phase, I definitely Dated a wide expanse of people (when I was 18 to 22)… and ya, some of them were folks I worked with at various jobs…

    Cannot say that all of those relationships would be regarded as kosher if put to a Litmus Test now based on todays 21st Century standards / way of thinking.

    (Good gosh, whatever was I thinking… I am sooo blaming this on youth, and lack of awareness as well as the times… a lot of stuff that would fly then wouldn’t fly now… and for GOOD reason)

     

    Post # 4
    Member
    601 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    No juicy stories – FI and I met where he works. We had sexy time. And we’re getting married. I haven’t worked there since 2008 though. Started working there in 2005. We started dating in Spring of 2007.

    Post # 5
    Member
    2766 posts
    Sugar bee

    Might want to edit your poll so multiple choices can be selected – for instance, I have slept with a teacher. Not when he was my teacher, but a few years after (talking college level here). I have not slept with any bosses or coworkers, but I know people who have.

    Post # 6
    Member
    2546 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    i met my husband at work so….

    Post # 7
    Member
    896 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2009

    @always:  My husband and I met at work (before we were in our respective careers), so I guess yes, I have had sex with a co-worker. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    2783 posts
    Sugar bee

    @always:  I used to hook up with my co-worker in the conference room/safe room/the boss’s office…it was so fun.

    Post # 9
    Member
    5544 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Not personally (one man girl here!) but my HS drama teacher was married to a former student. He was her student when she was a new teacher (age difference of like 5 years tops) but there were always rumors that there was not a whole lotta time between him graduating and them getting together. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    1002 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    If I wasnt a married woman, I’d see no problem in sleeping with a teacher or boss. Guess I’m just strange!

    Post # 11
    Member
    295 posts
    Helper bee

    You should edit the poll so you can select multiple choices. I hooked up with a teacher at one point and My SO was my boss initially and we secretly dated for 6 months until I moved away. We’re planning on getting married in the next few years. 

    Post # 12
    Member
    1332 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I was involved with someone I worked with very closely. We were just co-workers though, no one was in a position of authority over the other.

    My parents were an office romance gone very, very right. Again, equals, although my mom beat out my dad for her job! My dad got a different one a few months later.

    Post # 13
    Member
    1706 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    DH and I met at work, but we were coworkers he wasn’t my boss or vise versa.  I have never slept with a teacher but did have a really hot one we all dreamed about in highschool! Hahah!

    Post # 14
    Member
    2630 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    A student once propositioned my DH years ago. The way he tells the story cracks me up…

    Student: You know, I’d do aaannnnyyyything for a passing grade.

    DH: Oh really? Anything?

    Student: (all coy and flirty) Anything…

    DH: Does that include studying really hard and doing well on exams and quizzes?

    Student picked up all of her stuff and left in a huff! Hahahahaha!

    Post # 15
    Member
    2073 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I slept with a co-worker.  He had JUST quit as it was the end of summer and he was about to go back to univ… I was the same age and already graduated but he was going back for med school.  We had flirted at work hard… our whole work place was SUPER social and we all hung out all the time.  In fact I lived with 3 of my co-workers. 

    We went out drinking one night and ended up sleeping together only 2 or 3 times.  He ended up being an ass.  One of those guys who tries really really hard to be “different” and eccentric.  I liked it at first but quickly realized how forced it was.

    The flame went out pretty fast!

    Most of my univ professors were women…so… nope!  lol the only male profs I had,you couldn’t have paid me to sleep with them – ew!  But if they were sexy to me?  Yeah I wouldn’t have turned them down just because they were a professor.  By then I was an adult, not a teen. 

    Post # 16
    Member
    223 posts
    Helper bee

    I started dating my SO when we were co-workers. I knew of a couple people sleeping around with each other at that job.

    Also, we had a few different managers there and one of the younger guy managers seemed like a normal/chill/friendly-in-a-platonic-way kind of person, but turned out to be a total creeper when I was alone with him once. He was friends with coworkers on facebook and was known to hang out with people and I didn’t think anything weird of it when he wanted to hang out, I thought other people would be around. Nope. He was a f***ing weirdo.

    When I confided in a female coworker about him trying to get me to have sex with him, she told me he tried the same thing on her and had slept with or tried to with at least five other girls we worked with. Everyone was just keeping quiet about it! That was before my SO worked there though.

     

    And when I was in high school, there was a teacher who slept with two of her students (a 16 and 18 year old), and one of them reported her because he found out about the other and was jealous. Kind of intense.

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