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Spin Off: What is the one look you love that you just can't pull off?

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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    As a spin off to the fashion faux pas thread, what is something you love seeing on other people but just cannot pull off yourself?

    For me it's that super classic Ralph Lauren cable-knit sweater over a button down shirt look. The Ralph Lauren models (and many others) always look so chic and classic... I always look lumpy and bulky and the sleeves always bunch up and the sweater never fits right over the shirt.

    So, what's the one look you love but just can't pull off?

     
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    spaneshal    October 19, 2012   UK

    Leggings - they just make my legs look ridiculously thin and short, and they just emphasise EVERYTHING! Why do we wear these things?

     
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    Mrs.Estep    December 11, 2010   VA

    Red hair. (Hope that counts.) I have always loved natural red hair. But I have freckles & the one time I tried blonde it washed me out. So I never tried red. :/ 

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    I would love to be able to pull off a maxi skirt and chambray top, but the maxi skirt allllways makes me look like I have these awful saddlebags. Not cute!

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    Umm .... everything.  Every look I see that I love, never seems to look quite right on me.

    Probably why I stick to jeans and basic tops for weekends and slacks and cardigans / sweaters for work.

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    Yes!!!!! I never look sleek and put together when I try that either :( Boo.

    I always wish I could pull off the skinny jeans with heels thing and still look put together but it's just not meant to be for me and my body type.

    .Spin Off: What is the one look you love that you just can't pull off? :  wedding .jpeg

     
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    cyndistar3    September 3, 2011   Post Falls ID

    Sweater dresses. I have an abnormally long torso so they fit more like shirts :( I have yet to find one long enough that I could wear with leggings or tights.

     
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    Mrs.ChubbyBunny    October 1, 2011   Texas

    Spin Off: What is the one look you love that you just can't pull off? :  wedding Ecote Babydoll Dress

    Baby doll dresses. They look so chic on someone with no boobs, yet on me with a DDD chest, they look... maternity. Sadface.

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    Maxi dresses. They look awful on me!

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    @Mrs.KMM: same here

     
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    Wonderwoman217       Augusta, Georgia

    Skinny jeans. My hips and thighs are just too wide, in proportion with my calves and ankles.

     
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    hisgoosiegirl    June 18, 2011  

    Skinny jeans. And sweater dresses with boots. I'm short so the dresses (and most dresses) hit at an awkward spot on my legs and with boots it gives me nice chunky-looking legs.

     
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    Lemma    June 9, 2012   Ontario

    @Mrs.Estep:

    For me it's any hair colour other than red. I'm a natural redhead and have the skin that goes along with that. So basically, I can't pull off dark hair because to quote my hairdresser, it would make me look dead. I can't pull of blond hair because it would wash me out even more than I already am. 

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    @Running Elley: Ooo i LOVE that look. Doesn't work on me either. My hips are just too wide. If I want to wear skinny jeans it HAS to be with boots.

     

    @cyndistar3: Those make me look lumpy too... hmm.. maybe *I'm* the lumpy one... And every one I've tried on was very itchy.

     
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    hthesken    September 15, 2012   ohio

    I also cannot pull off the leggins. Makes me sad, because it looks really cute on some girls.

     
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    sarahjc0015    September 15, 2012  

    Big sunglasses. They look cute on other people but I think I look like a bug.

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    @KatNYC2011:Yepp! I CANNOT wear them without boots and I have wide, "child-bearing" hips lol.

    Oh another one is blazers! I always lust over them but I haven't found one that works in outfits the way I want it to or looks the way that I want it to. I haven't given up on them yet though!Spin Off: What is the one look you love that you just can't pull off? :  wedding Blazer

     
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    linguo42    February 27, 2011   Vancouver, B.C.

    Tops like this with those stretchy bands or gathers around the bottom. They look great on my stick-thin straight up and down friends with no boobs, but I'm an hourglass and they just make me look pregnant, lol.

    Spin Off: What is the one look you love that you just can't pull off? :  wedding AAAAC6utqIEAAAAAAX1xMQ

     
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    Maxi dresses. Every Spring/ Summer I look to buy one but I never do because I think it just looks "off" on me...sad face.

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    @Running Elley: I love blazers too. I have one I wore for e-pics that I think looked ok though:

    Spin Off: What is the one look you love that you just can't pull off? :  wedding NY Engagement

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    @KatNYC2011:Oh that is so cute! Do you have any pictures from straight on? Where did you get it? It looks like just the right length...it's when they get too long that I have issues I think because it hits at a weird place on me.

     
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    Strapless dresses. Alas I am very well endowed and they are not comfortable.

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    @Running Elley:

    Got it at anthropologie. Below is photo from when i bought it. It was displayed with the dress, but they didn't work together on me:Spin Off: What is the one look you love that you just can't pull off? :  wedding Photo6

     
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    Mrs.Estep    December 11, 2010   VA

    @Lemma: Aw, lucky you!! Red hair is GORGEOUS!!!!!!

     
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    cyndistar3    September 3, 2011   Post Falls ID

    @KatNYC2011: I have actually found some really flattering non itching ones but they just aren't long enough so I just buy them and wear them as shirts with jeans and what not :/

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    @KatNYC2011:Ohhhh I think I remember you posting about that actually. Thanks! I'm off to stalk their website now.

     
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    sarahbabs    September 8, 2012   NYC, wedding in the Hudson Valley

    I really love Helmut Lang's aesthetic - very modern and chic, but most of the boxy cuts just make me look preggers.  Big boobs are hard to dress!

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    @cyndistar3: I bet they are still cute like that!

    I may try again now that I'm living in "foggy london town" and it's getting cold.

     
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    Tube tops (are they still around? - I feel like I remember seeing them 5 year ago). Just doesn't work with small boobs. 

    Really strapless anything is not a good idea on me.

     
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    BlueSatinBows    May 26, 2012  

    @Running Elley: same here! skinnies were NOT made for me. and it's such a shame because they look so cute on everyone else. haha

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    @Molly929: They don't work with big boobs either. I could never pull those off!

     
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    miss hugs    May 2013  

    Layered looks are horrible on my short and VERY endowed upperbody!

    But I love the look!

     
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    .twist.    October 7, 2011   Alberta, Canada

    Any type of skirt. I look ridiculous. Actually, I'm not stylish at all. All looks I like I don't think I can pull off.

     
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    @KatNYC2011: True! You probably need a B or C cup, nothing bigger or smaller.

     
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    Aure    October 6, 2012   Las Vegas

    So many looks that have been mentioned... babydolls, layers, empire waist... basically anything that adds bulk to my 36Fs. :(

     
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    jjmomma    March 11, 2011  

    Cute mini-dresses... I have stick legs and no waist, so I look like a rectangle on toothpicks in them.  But they look so fun and cute!  I'm always the one in the long skirt :(

    Spin Off: What is the one look you love that you just can't pull off? :  wedding Mini Dress

     
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    nikinyc    October 2010  

    Herve Leger (or similar bandage type) dresses... they seem to look stunning on models, not so much on me.

     
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    stardustintheeyes    September 20, 2013   Chicago

    pretty much any skirt of any kind. the worst part of my body is my waist (thank you 9lb 3oz child for that) and i always feell ike things sit weird on my waist and hips. it might just be me because when friends have gone shopping with me and i try something on they tell me it looks fine but i FEEL IT!!!!! i know it looks ridiculous!!!! so i dont wear skirts. also i ahve funky calves. this brings me too my next one....boots. like the ones that go up to your knee. I cannot wear them unless they are wide width ones. its always been that way, even as a teen. i was a gymnast and as such have always had monster legs. muscular yes, but huge.

     
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    finnaroo    August 7, 2010   DC (living in nyc now)

    another vote for blazers! they just do not look good on my body, i have big boobs and they just make me look super boxy. i just found one that actually does look okay, and thank goodness because i'm a grad student ta-ing for the first time this semester and they make you look so much more "professory"-y!

    also crewneck necklines make me look boxy, and v-necks can look too slutty on me--almost all my tops are scoop necks. ahh the difficulties of shopping...!

    ETA: OH and dress pants/slacks. i have zero butt and they just always look weird. i almost always wear skirts or dresses when i need to look professional

     
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    LGenz    May 21, 2011   New Jersey, Wedding in Clearwater, FL

    Skinny/Peg jeans and cute hige heels. Idk I'm just too tall or big for it. I feel like only really petite girls look cute in that outfit.

     

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