(Closed) SPIN-OFF: When you’re stuck in a rut, what tricks do you have to get out of it?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
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Blushing bee

Great idea!

Communicating/talking more always helps us! Sometimes we’ll feel off cause we realize that we’ve spent every night for a couple weeks coming home and zoning out with our TV shows. So we say “hey, let’s make a point to watch less TV this week, go out (just the two of us) to eat, talk, drink…etc.”

Sometimes just doing a better job of taking care of ME helps a lot too! I find that when I maintain stuff I like to do – like reading things that interest me, excersizing, kicking butt at work – I am a much more interesting and intersted person to be around. Sometimes we all have that feeling of “I have nothing to talk with you about, how did that happen when we used to spend hours talking nonstop!” and then I realize that I have fallen into a boring rut of work, eat, veg and don’t DO all the things I love doing.

And when the rut is around sex…having a few glasses of wine together and being brave enough to start talking about our fantasies together, or watching a little porn together (if that’s something you’re ok with in your relationship) usually helps us get back on track 😉

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