(Closed) Spin off: Would you be upset if your FI was watching porn that…

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would this upset you?
    Not really? Should it? : (111 votes)
    67 %
    Yes but only if it extremly didnt resemble me. Like if he was watching dude on dude : (27 votes)
    16 %
    Yes, it would upset me greatly! : (27 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Nope, they’re skinny and I’m not haha  It doesn’t bother me

    Post # 4
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    It would probably hurt my feelings, but I know I have self confidence issues.

    Post # 5
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Not really… Porn doesn’t bug me in general, but if he was watching one with a clone of me, I might be a little wondering why he doesn’t just head on over to the bedroom for some real action…

    Post # 6
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Zama Beach Club, Isla Mujeres, Mexico

    OMG this totally happened to me! lol, maybe this is TMI, but one time I caught DH looking at blonde, big titty porn. It sucked actually. I felt pretty shitty about myself but then I was like…well he must really like something about me if he likes me too 😀 

    Maybe I’m delusional but it makes me feel better

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    It would never even cross my mind to consider this. Definitely do not care. 

    Post # 9
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I think I would find it weirder if he was watching girls that looked like me. I consider porn fantasy so I would expect him to fantasize about people who look nothing like me.

    Post # 10
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

    Women ogle all different type of men in movies and tv, myself included. DH has nothing in common with Hugh Jackman beyond height and singing voice and he doesn’t mind that I salivate over him. So I have to forgive his liking for redheads. DH is also smart enough to keep any porn viewing out of my sight otherwise he knows I’d pester and tease him relentlessly on his viewing choices. 

    Post # 11
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I don’t think I’d give it a second thought unless what he was looking at appeared to be some type of fetish. 

    Post # 12
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 1992

    Only to the extent that I don’t think I’m as beautiful as the average porn star, but those are “me issues,” not “porn issues.” He can watch what he wants, but I don’t want to see the “inspiration,” because then I’d internalize how fit and trim she is compared to me.

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    He just cares about butts when he watches porn.

    And he happens to really like my butt.

    I’m not worried about Ms. Big Breastests taking my man away. My 34Bs have been satisfying him for months now, and I’ve heard no complaints, blonde hair or no!

    So there, porn.

    *humps it into submission*

    Post # 14
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    @hisgoosiegirl:  HEY. Redheads can be awesome. I would know. >;D

    Post # 15
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Torrid:  He just cares about butts when he watches porn.

    This is my husband too.  I am not even sure he even bothers to look at their faces. lol

    Post # 16
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

    @Torrid:  LOL, actually we have a bet going that if he gets muscles like Hugh Jackman, I will get red hair. 

     

    His flaw of course, was not specifying “dye” my hair. Raggedy-Ann wig it is!

     

    And I actually love red hair as well. I think it’s beautiful!

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