Post # 1
Hello ladies! Many of you commented on my thread from yesterday regarding my less than spectacular hair and makeup trial. Thanks to everyone who commented, your honesty and suggestions are all very appreciated! If you didn’t see it, you can find it here.
Long story short, I brought two pictures of what I wanted and what I got was something different. Not only that, but the makeup did not look professional. I could have done better applying it myself with only the aid of a night light.
I have a consultation and trial run scheduled with a different makeup artist next week (who partners with a salon for hair services), so assuming everything goes well at my trial, I’ll have a new makeup artist. Yay! Now the hard part will breaking up with my current hair/makeup lady once I find her replacement.
What should I tell her? She’s expecting that the next time I contact her it will be to tell her what time to show up the day of. Have you fired any of your vendors? What did you say?
Post # 3
Just tell her you decided not to go with her. That’s it. Easy! I fired my make up artist and hair stysts too. They are my friends though, but their work sucked big time!!
Post # 4
I fired my photographer and she was very understanding. I would just tell her honestly that you are going to somebody else who meets your needs better, or you don’t necessarily have to give a valid reason, it’s your day! I’m sire it wouldn’t be the first time some one has had to cancel. Good luck 🙂
Post # 5
I’d say you decided to do your own makeup to save money or something along those lines.
Post # 6
Oh yea, we tried to fire our photographer too but didn’t. After “hey I’m letting you go” talk, he gave us a big presentation of how he can satisfy our needs and ended up throwing a lot of free stuff too. We’re very happy we went with him. We became friends:)
Post # 7
I would just say that the makeup didn’t match your vision and you’re going with someone else. Sure, you could lie and say you’re doing it yourself, but if she doesn’t get constructive criticism she won’t get any better.
Post # 8
@ellie-b: Just be honest with her that you feel like her style of artistry does not match to what you envisioned. Easy peasy! 🙂 Vendors are so used to that, she won’t be hurt I promise!
Post # 9
My first makeup trial was horrible. I looked so ordinary and honestly not much better than if I had done it myself. I had already given a deposit, a big deposit. I asked for a re-do trial but she wanted to charge me an additoinal 85$ for it! I refused to pay that much for another round of so-so makeup. The crazy thing is she won so many awards on weddingwire for vendor of year, etc. so I felt confident in booking her! I’ve never NOT liked makeup that I had done professionally until this trial.
When she wouldn’t give me a free or low cost second trial I told her thanks but no thanks, I wouldn’t be needing her services for the wedding. Technically , (per contract) she could have come after me for a lot more money since I broke our contract within a certrain amount of time before the wedding. Luckily she didn’t. She made out very well with my deposit and she also told me she couldn’t stay for touch-ups (something I paid 200 extra for ) and that her “assistant” would stay (not ok I paid HER 200$ to stay) because she was leaving for Poland after she finished my makeup. Blessing in disquise that I fired her ass, my MUA was amazing and so much more affordable!
Post # 10
I break up with vendors all the time (no lie). My favorite line “although I like your work, I’ve decided to go in a different direction. Another [vendor] who comes highly recommended seems to be more in line with my vision for the day. Please feel free to book another event on [date] if you would like. Best wishes in your future endeavors!”
Post # 11
- Wedding: February 2015 - Bethesda Academy Whitefield Chapel & Brockington Hall
@Overjoyed: that advice is so perfect! Lol, i really could have used it a week ago but c’est la vie! Im glad to have it now! 🙂 thanks!!
Post # 13
I had to break up with a vendor – my email to them included things like
- it was a pleasure meeting with you
- I appreciate your time (if you’ve used them for whatever)
- While I love your work, I’ve decided to go in another direction
I think it’s best to end on a good note – you don’t know who they know and you don’t want to be talked about in a negative light. Also, there’s no reason to be specific as to why you aren’t using them unless they ask.
Post # 14
I fired my makeup artist after I didn’t like my trial. I just sent an email, and that was that!
Post # 15
I didn’t go with the makeup girl I trialed. I told her honestly that I didn’t care for it. Most of them know it’s not personal.
Post # 16
I would definitely just say something short and sweet like “Dear MUA, After some thought I decided to go in another direction. I will no longer need your services for my wedding on Date”
Don’t lie that you’re doing it yourself if you aren’t. That’s ridiculous. We, as women, need to stop being so concerned about being percieved as “nice”. What’s the worst that can happen? The MUA calls you up and yells at you for canceling on you? Oh well.