Post # 1
… what would it be?
I want him to stop smoking.
But I bet he’d say he wishes I were neater in the house. I work the weirdest schedule and am a little messy on top of it, which is a bad combo.
He probably also secretly wishes I was 30lbs lighter. Which, good thing for him, I’m running every morning before work!
… instead of doing laundry.
Post # 3
He probably would want me to be less of a nag.
I would like him to procrastinate less – he does it with everything: cleaning, making phone calls, etc. If he did things in a timely manner, I wouldn’t need to nag him about it!
Post # 4
He would probably say that I stress to much.. Prolly about stuff that I shouldnt stress about yet.. On top of that I am a major control freak and a major neat freak… So sometimes I know he feels like he gets the look if he doesnt put his something back in the right place etc…. lol
Post # 5
i exaggerate too much and i always leave stuff on his desk chair. we went over this before when the radio was asking for people to call in and say what they would change about the other person.
Post # 6
If I could change something about my husband it would also be his smoking. He has been banished to his car if he wants to smoke. I quit a long while ago so it’s hard to live with a smoker.
He would probably want to change my stubborn streak. Growing up with brothers a lot of my opinions were really kind of invalidated by my mother and father. Since I was the girl, my problems were seen as me being “dramatic” whereas my brothers were the golden kids and everything they said was taken very seriously. Now as an adult I tend to not react well if I feel I am not being heard, and it can be hard for me to suck it up and apologize even if I know I went too far.
Luckily DH is actually very understanding about this as he has seen my family do this firsthand.
Post # 7
He would want me to just take a compliment. lol He always says I look pretty or beautiful, almost every time I see him, so it’s hard to believe him every time. But it is nice that he says it! 🙂 I really should work on that.
Post # 8
He’d want me to be less messy. I tend to leave “crumbies” everywhere. I’m actually a lot neater then I used to be since moving in with him at least, it really could be worse!
Post # 9
He would want me to be less bossy and impatient. I plan school days down to the minute and direct children with precise directions all day long. It is hard to turn it off when I get home. I have no patience for inefficiency in adults.
Post # 10
He would probably say he wishes I wouldn’t turn into the wicked witch when I am in severe pain or severly stressed. When I am really really hurting I am no fun to be around . First I b*tch him out for mistakes then I cry because I feel so guilty and am in so much pain. Sigh*
Post # 11
DH would want me to be more affirming in taking my issues to him about things I’m seeing (I know b/c he’s told me)… I can come off harsh and know that that doesn’t help… even if what I’m seeing does need to change/be adjusted…
^ I think this is what I would like to change about myself too!
Post # 12
He would want me to work on my eating and work out habits.. I don’t think I eat horrible but my SO eats super healthy and works out everyday, you would think it would rub off on me but I can’t give up carbs!
Post # 14
Probably my habit of when I’m pissed I tend to just walk away. He takes it as “I’m walking away from him”, but it’s really “I’m walking away so I don’t slap you” lol.
Post # 15
My stubborness!! Even I know that I take it to the extreme. It’s a blessing and a curse and unfortunatly, runs in my family. 😛
Post # 16
I suffer from pretty extreme PMDD, so I imagine he would like it if he didn’t fear for his life for one day a month (not literally, lol…but close).