Post # 1
I am. Well, hopefully not an actual brat but definitely spoiled. My husband cooks and cleans, gives me beautiful trips and things, makes me breakfast in bed several times per week, and just really spoils me. We just celebrated our eighth anniversary and he still treats me like a princess. He is always telling me “You are high maintenance but I love maintaining you!”
Post # 3
Last night Fiance & I were discussing how spoiled I am LOL…he is always, always rubbing something for me…my head, my back, my butt (butt massages are the best thing ever). He takes me out to dinner whenever I want, where ever I want, if I say I want something, he gets it for me…but last night, he said he loves spoiling me because I deserve it. Love me a sweet man 🙂
Post # 4
- Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House
haha I think my Fiance and I are both spoiled!
Post # 5
Are you spoiling him in return?
Post # 6
Umm, sort of.
I would say that my Fiance spoils me, but I am not a brat. If I acted bratty, I’m sure he would stop the spoiling in an instant! Nobody likes it when they are not appreciated.
Like yours, my Fiance enjoys cooking and cleaning, so he does more than half the household chores, and he’s incredible at surprising me with trips and extremely thoughtful gifts.
He does NOT give me breakfast in bed though, EVER! lol! To quote him… “CRUMBS!!! ACK!!!”
In life I have never been spoiled or bratty. My parents were very lousy parents. I was the opposite of spoiled… I was neglected and marginalized.
I always worked hard throughout life and I am not materialistic, or snobby about financial or class issues (I am totally an ethics snob…but that’s because anyone can be a good person if they want to be). I spend a large part of my time volunteering for causes I support, because it makes my life meaningful. I dislike people who behave in a spoiled and bratty way.
Post # 7
My partner treats me well but I’m not smug about it.
Post # 8
@definitelymaybe: Absolutely, we just really love loving each other.
Post # 9
@MrsFuzzyFace: then I see nothing wrong with it.
Post # 10
What is this a spinoff of?
Post # 11
@mstellah: “Is anyone else with a spoiled brat?”
Post # 12
Yeah,I’m spoiled but I try very hard to not be a brat.
He also does the things that you PP wrote (takes me out wherever I want, gives me flowers at least once a month, makes me breakfast in bed often, etc)
He also pays for EVERYTHING and has done this our entire relationship. He likes to take care of me and I liked to be taken care of.
But, I think it’s very important to say that I spoil him as well. I always give him amazing birthday presents (one year I took him for 2 weeks in the Cayman Islands -paid for it all myself!)
So I think we’re both spoiled and I love it!
Post # 13
Not spoiled here, but I do my best to tend my husband hand and foot and spoil him. I get him gifts when I can, make sure his glass is always full and is well fed.
It’s the best I can do. My husband is spoiled.
Post # 14
@Hyperventilate: I am like this, too. I love taking care of my SO, but if I’m not getting anything in return in that aspect, & he’s not making an effort, then it’s not okay.
Post # 16
@WhatMaeBee: I thought I was the only one that thought butt massages are Gods gift to the world! hahaha
I don’t consider myself spoiled with material things, but I am definitely spoiled with sweet/kind gestures and tons of love from SO. He cooks, fixes things for me (most recently my macbook LCD screen apple wanted $600 to replace, bought a screen for $70 and SO fixed it!), takes my trash out for me, kills bugs for me, etc. I’d rather be spoiled this way 😉
EDIT: I also go out of my way to spoil SO. I buy him little random gifts all the time (most recently a Darth Vader candy dispenser for his desk lol), bring him lunch, bake for him, etc.