(Closed) Spinoff: Is anyone a spoiled brat?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
2164 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Last night Fiance & I were discussing how spoiled I am LOL…he is always, always rubbing something for me…my head, my back, my butt (butt massages are the best thing ever). He takes me out to dinner whenever I want, where ever I want, if I say I want something, he gets it for me…but last night, he said he loves spoiling me because I deserve it. Love me a sweet man 🙂

Post # 4
6207 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

haha I think my Fiance and I are both spoiled!

Post # 5
41 posts

Are you spoiling him in return?

Post # 6
6360 posts
Bee Keeper

Umm, sort of.

I would say that my Fiance spoils me, but I am not a brat. If I acted bratty, I’m sure he would stop the spoiling in an instant! Nobody likes it when they are not appreciated.

Like yours, my Fiance enjoys cooking and cleaning, so he does more than half the household chores, and he’s incredible at surprising me with trips and extremely thoughtful gifts.

He does NOT give me breakfast in bed though, EVER! lol! To quote him… “CRUMBS!!! ACK!!!”

In life I have never been spoiled or bratty. My parents were very lousy parents. I was the opposite of spoiled… I was neglected and marginalized.

I always worked hard throughout life and I am not materialistic, or snobby about financial or class issues (I am totally an ethics snob…but that’s because anyone can be a good person if they want to be). I spend a large part of my time volunteering for causes I support, because it makes my life meaningful. I dislike people who behave in a spoiled and bratty way. 

Post # 7
691 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My partner treats me well but I’m not smug about it.

Post # 10
948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

What is this a spinoff of?

Post # 12
1292 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Yeah,I’m spoiled but I try very hard to not be a brat.

 He also does the things that you PP wrote (takes me out wherever I want, gives me flowers at least once a month, makes me breakfast in bed often, etc)
He also pays for EVERYTHING and has done this our entire relationship. He likes to take care of me and I liked to be taken care of.

But, I think it’s very important to say that I spoil him as well. I always give him amazing birthday presents (one year I took him for 2 weeks in the Cayman Islands -paid for it all myself!)

So I think we’re both spoiled and I love it!

Post # 13
9073 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Not spoiled here, but I do my best to tend my husband hand and foot and spoil him. I get him gifts when I can, make sure his glass is always full and is well fed.

It’s the best I can do. My husband is spoiled.

Post # 14
41 posts

@Hyperventilate:  I am like this, too. I love taking care of my SO, but if I’m not getting anything in return in that aspect, & he’s not making an effort, then it’s not okay.

Post # 15
8473 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Nope. Can’t say so. 

Post # 16
722 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

 @WhatMaeBee:  I thought I was the only one that thought butt massages are Gods gift to the world! hahaha

 I don’t consider myself spoiled with material things, but I am definitely spoiled with sweet/kind gestures and tons of love from SO. He cooks, fixes things for me (most recently my macbook LCD screen apple wanted $600 to replace, bought a screen for $70 and SO fixed it!), takes my trash out for me, kills bugs for me, etc. I’d rather be spoiled this way 😉

EDIT: I also go out of my way to spoil SO. I buy him little random gifts all the time (most recently a Darth Vader candy dispenser for his desk lol), bring him lunch, bake for him, etc.



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