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Spinoff: Is your man circumsized? Do you care?

posted 4 months ago in Intimacy
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  • poll: Is your man circumsized?
    Yes, and I'm happy that he is. : (155 votes)
    48 %
    Yes, but I couldn't care less. : (65 votes)
    20 %
    Yes, but I wish he wasn't. : (6 votes)
    2 %
    No, and I'm happy that he's not. : (43 votes)
    13 %
    No, but I couldn't care less. : (43 votes)
    13 %
    No, but I wish he was. : (13 votes)
    4 %
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    Just a friendly poll - not planning to start a debate. :)

    Is your man (SO, FI, DH, whatever) circumsized?  Are you happy about it either way?

     
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    Miss Smurf    September 2011  

    Nope... hubby is "au natural"!!!! 

     It really doesn't matter to me either way... the way I look at it is, he lives with the penis... I just go on "vacations" with the penis.  If he is happy, then I am happy.

     
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    futureMrsMason    October 6, 2012   Georgia

    FI is circumsized, but I don't think I'd care either way.

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    @Miss Smurf: Hahaha, well said!

    My FI is not, and I don't really care.  He keeps very clean and it's just another part of him!

     
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    Mrs.Estep    December 11, 2010   VA

    Nope, he is not. He was suppose to had been, it was a mistake on the doctors part. But I don't mind it at all & wouldn't even know how to act to one that was! (Been with hubby since I was 15.) 

     

     
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    Blueknightess    July 20, 2013   Ontario, Canada

    My FI is circumsized and I like it better that way! 

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    Love em natural best!

     
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    Stammie16    March 31, 2012   NJ

    FH is Jewish so its kind of a given that he is, doesn't matter to me.

     
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    Ms Mini    July 17, 2010   Medicine Hat, AB

    DH is circumsized, and that is just fine with me. I would be happy with either cut or uncut on my guy!

    During my wild days, I got a lot of "experience" and got to experience both cut and uncut guys, and it really doesn't make a huge difference. If anything actually, uncut guys feel a touch better, because you get more sensation from the extra skin. Uncut guys also are more responsive to oral and manual stimulation because the heads of their penises are more sensitive in my experience. I haven't noticed a big difference in endurance during vaginal sex either way.

    I didn't notice a difference in hygiene between cut or uncut, both were really just as clean at the other, uncut guys just learn to retract the foreskin to clean themseleves when they shower. If anything, they might be a tough more fastidious with regards to their intimate hygiene. 

     
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    couawilou    October 20, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    @Miss Smurf: hahaha, that's a clever way to describe it

    My FI is and honestly I wouldn't care if he wasn't.

     
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    jaguar    June 11, 2011  

    Nope, and nope. Natural is fine by me.. we have no complaints. :)

     
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    Coffee cup    December 7, 2012   Sonora, Mexico

    FI is not. Since I know he's good with his higene I really don't care and I've never been with someone else to know the difference. Maybe cause I'm used to it but I like it "natural".

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    @Ms Mini: Thanks for the detailed response - it's like you were doing undercover reconnaissance during your wilder days! ;)

     
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    Aure    October 6, 2012   Las Vegas

    He is and I prefer it that way.

     
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    mcklough    August 18, 2012   Oneonta NY

    I said i wouldn't care, but the first time I saw one I was totally thrown off- it just reminded me of a canoli, but I know that was an immature and uninformed thought

     
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    Bichon Frise    June 2012   NC

    Yes and no. I really don't think it matters as far as sexual pleasure for the woman is concerned. 

     
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    Ivorybuttons    September 22, 2012   Canada

    He is, and we both prefer it that way: simply for aesthetics.

    I wouldn't care if he wasn't, since his hygeine is superb;  but it's one more reason to me that he's perfect.

     
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    Eight6Eleven    August 6, 2011   Pittsburgh

    DH is but 2 of my old bfs were not. Either way doesn't matter to me. 

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    I have never scene an "un cut" penis , so I have no idea how it would compare aesthetically or intimately.

    I figure, a penis is a penis! they are good for some things ;)

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    DH is not circumsized but I don't really care either way.

     
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    AirForceWife78    October 19, 2013   Live in Colorado Springs, CO. Wedding in Madera, CA

    When we first started dating and he told me he was uncircumsized, I reeally didn't know what to expect. But it's a total non event. You don't even notice, and when you're down there, it gives you more to play with ;)

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    DH is circumcised (he's Jewish) but I wouldn't care if he wasn't.

     
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    o0olibelulao0o    April 14, 2012   Texas Hill Country

    FI is circumsized, I've never seen one that wasn't... but I don't really think I'd care either way... It's his junk, circumsized or not it will still do it's job. Wink

     
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    SpecialSundae    April 21, 2012   Dunfermline, Fife, Scotland, UK

    My FI isn't circumcised and I'm glad of it. I've been with quite a few of both cut and un-cut and I prefer un-cut (although my absolute favourite choice would be un-cut with a PA). As a PP said, oral and manual stimulation is easier with a foreskin and, from expierence, a PA just makes it that little bit more interesting.

     
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    Mashiara    June 1, 2013   Texas

    What is a PA? My FI is uncircumsized, and I love it. I've only ever been with men that are. I work in a hospital, and see plenty of uncircumsized, and it just looks alien to me. I'd think itd be too squishy....not satisfying.

    Now that I work on an infant unit, I want to high five the women who ask for circumcision. I usually tell them about my approval, but of course it is the woman's choice. We have a whole pamphlet to hand out saying that neither way is specifically endorsed by the medical community, because it doesnt increase or lower your chance of disease and hygiene is fairly easy even uncircumsized. We're supposed to direct them to choose based on their own experience and religious beliefs.

    That being said... any son of mine gets the snip snip.

     
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    Moja Milosc    September 24, 2011  

    DH is and I don't care. I have an ex who isn't and it made no difference to me.

     
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    Aure    October 6, 2012   Las Vegas

    @Mashiara: I'm going to guess a "Prince Albert" piercing.

     
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    msfahrenheit    August 28, 2011   Blacksburg VA

    My DH isn't, but he wishes he was. His foreskin is very tight and it sometimes gets pulled back during sex, which he says is very uncomfortable

     
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    PinkMagnolia    November 2011  

    DH is circumcised and I love it.

    An ex was un circumcised and he had a lot of problems during sex. It was painful, he would break condoms easily (I guess it got trapped?)... he wished all the time he was circed.

     
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    .twist.    October 7, 2011   Alberta, Canada

    @msfahrenheit: This happens to a friend of ours. Just recently he was err... on a date with a girl, in his bed... and they noticed blood, and thought it was from her, and then he realized it was from him, because his forskin tightened too much and wouldn't go over the head... Needless to say, he was in a lot of pain, had to go to the ER and the government is now going to pay for him to be circumsized.

     
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    PurpleUnicorn    April 19, 2011  

    nope and i could care less. lol, until i read your post, i never knew this would be something that could spark a debate! (still not sure how it could...)

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    My DH isn't and I'm glad he isn't. Besides not being pro-circumcision for other reasons, I find it feels much better than guys who are cut. ;)

     
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    SpecialSundae    April 21, 2012   Dunfermline, Fife, Scotland, UK

    @PinkMagnolia: A foreskin shouldn't cause a condom to break unless it was put on wrong.

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    @PurpleUnicorn: It could spark a debate because they are many women against circumcision and many women for circumcision. The OP doesn't want this to turn into a nasty debate (there have been quite a few on the Bee) on whether we are for or against it.

     
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    Mrs Sarah McK    October 10, 2010   Harrisburg, PA

    DH is, but I had a boyfriend who wasn't, and it was never a problem. I never minded either way. 

     
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    PurpleUnicorn    April 19, 2011  

    @Jenn23: interesting. the only thing i guess I knew about it was that Jewish people do it (for religious reasons i assumed). i guess i have also heard about people being against it due to it being a painful thing to go through for the baby?  And i have heard that people like it because it is supposedly "cleaner". I just never thought it was debate worthy nor have i seen any of these debates before.  I won't say any more though so as not to start one!

     
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    MissPumpkinPie    October 13, 2012   Jersey Shore

    FI is and I like it that way.

     
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    Rush1986      

    @mcklough:HAHA made me laugh. 

    He is and i know our sons will be.  My brother did not have my nephew circumsized and my SO thought they were crazy.  He said they teased the uncirmumsized kids in the locker room alot. Silly men.

     
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    Lemma    June 9, 2012   Ontario

    My FI isn't and I'm glad that he isn't. Except in situations where it's medically necessary like mentioned above, the practice seems a bit barbaric to me. (Note: this isn't intended to spark a debate. Piercing for example is another thing that seems barbaric to me and I've had 4 piercings!)

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    @PurpleUnicorn: Yep, do a google search and you'll see lots and lots of debates and find loads of info. (Check the sources carefully, as there is bias from both sides of course)  I am very opposed to it for a few reasons and won't mention them here, but you'll see them mentioned if you do a google search. Likewise, there are many people who are totally in support of circumcision. Many countries in the world do not circumcise. The U.S. is in the minority and it is on the decline.

     

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