Spinoff: Porn conventions

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Are you OK with porn conventions?
    Absolutely NOT! : (14 votes)
    39 %
    I wouldn't mind as long as SO took me! : (12 votes)
    33 %
    I don't care at all...it's just like a strip club! : (10 votes)
    28 %
    Other : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3394 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @texasbee:  He can go to conventions (not that it’s ever come up) or strip clubs as long as I can go too. If I can’t go, then hell no.

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    15072 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    If we were in Vegas or something and stumbled into one we would probably go in. I mean who doesn’t want Ron Jeremy’s autograph!?

    If DH stumbled onto one alone or with the guys, he better get me Ron Jeremy’s autograph while he’s there and Jenna Jamesons! (Slight brag, she followed me on twitter for a while, it was cool)

    DH hates crowds so he wouldn’t seek out going to a porn convention, but even if he was the type, eh, I wouldn’t care if he went with or without me. I trust him wholeheartedly.

    Post # 5
    Member
    10219 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    As I’ve said on previous posts about Porn (including the Web Cam one)

    The Boundary that works for Mr TTR in our relationship is no porno activity that involves interaction with a real live person…

    So Books, Videos, Tv, Movies… all ok

    Internet Porn as long as it is all photos and no Web Cam / One-on-one Chats

    Exotic Dancers in a Strip Joint viewed from afar

    No Strippers doing lap dances, and

    Absolutely No Strippers / Sex Trade Workers in Champagne Rooms or other Venues (Hotel Rooms)

    I am familiar with Porn Conventions… they typically feature Porn Stars (women mostly) who are treated like Celebs and sign autographs etc

    Again, I would not be OK with this under the terms of our Agreed upon Boundaries… as this would be the opportunity for one-on-one fraternization with someone who my Hubby has as they say “upside down & naked in the dark”

    I don’t care that it was “on film”…

    The ONLY person in life that we have that relationship with is EACH OTHER

    If he was to talk to her, there would be a “perceived” relationship… maybe a little flirting going on, dirty talk, titalating conversation…

    And that isn’t ok… cause that crosses OUR LINE between fantasy & reality.

    So ya, NO to Porn Conventions.

     

    Post # 6
    Member
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @texasbee:  I don’t know what a porn convention is. We have sex shows here, such as the everything to do about sex show, but they are quite tame (at least in my experience). I have gone with my husband as neither of us would have any interest going with anyone else. That would be awkward. We are the ones who have sex with each other. 

    To each their own, but I see it as a joint activity. 

    Post # 7
    Hostess
    15072 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    @MrsPanda99:  a porn convention is where the actors come and sign autographs, sell their calendars, movies, toys, basically its like a comiccon just the porn version.

    Post # 8
    Member
    8518 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    I wouldnt mind, as long as I got to go. Might be fun!

    Post # 10
    Member
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @texasbee:  In the age of digital recording, I can’t imagine anyone doing that. Single or not, I wouldn’t have sex with a random in front of an audience recording me. Okay, my vote is neither of us would go because that’s just crazy town. We have been to sex clubs but no recording was allowed and there were no porn stars (as far as I know anyway). 

    @tksjewelry:  I guess I’ve been living under a rock. I had no idea something like that existed. I’d be worried if my partner watched so much porn he knew all their names and wanted their autographs. Something about that just doesn’t sit well with me. Well, maybe because I’m not a fan of the porn industry as a whole. 

    To each their own. 

    Post # 11
    Member
    331 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I would go, sounds like it would be fun ! Considering my SO is only having sex with me, I dont see why hed go without me..he knows I like that stuff (we are the kind of couple who watch porn together)

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