(Closed) Spinoff: Post your personal vows!

posted 5 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@WhiteWedding:  Here are my vows 🙂

Steve,

You are my best friend, my partner in crime, and my one true love.

I love that you are the most kind, generous, big hearted person I know. 

I love that you live your life with passion and remain forever optimistic.

I love that you sing, dance, and make me laugh when I want it the least, but need it the most.

I love the sweet gestures you do for me every day to show me how much you love me.

I love that you make me feel safe.

Thank you for accepting me for all of my faults, even when I am being the fun police.

Thank you for keeping me grounded when I turn into a giant ball of stress.

Thank you for fighting so hard for our relationship and never giving up on me.

Thank you for loving me.

As your wife, I promise to laugh more and roll my eyes less.

I promise to think before I speak harshly.

I promise to give you the lead way you are always asking for.

I promise never to go to bed angry.

I promise to kiss you even when your breath smells like onions.

I promise to comfort you when the Orioles lose and cheer with you win they win.

I promise not to take myself too seriously.

I promise to be the best wife I can be.

I promise to remember all of the reasons I fell in love with you.

I promise to never take you for granted.

I promise to make every tomorrow better than today.

I promise to love you.  I promise to love you.  I promise to love you.

 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

My vows 

For me my fairytale has always been  to find someone who makes me happy, who wants to and loves to make me happy. Someone who will never hurt me intentionally. Someone who will laugh with me and cry with me, fight with me and fight for me. Someone whose happiest moments are the ones spent with me. I don’t want happily ever after, that fairytale could never be real. Real Life is filled with pain and sorrow and loss, just as it is filled with joy and happiness and gain. I want someone who will be there through the good and the bad, the happy and the sad. Someone who is there to catch me when I fall or remind me that I’m strong enough to get back up on my own depending on which I need. Someone who doesn’t need me to need them but rather is confident enough to realize that even though I can do it on my own I choose to do it with them and loves me more because of it.  Someone who shares and admires my ambition and pushes me as well as themselves to do better and be better. Someone who never fails to show me or remind me through their words and actions that I mean the world to them. A protector and defender. A lover, a confidant and a friend That is the relationship I have always dreamt of. When I met you I had no idea that you would fulfill any of these criteria but as time passed one by one you checked off each an every requirement without me even realizing it. now as I stand beside you and before my friends and family today I vow not only to do all of the same for you amd more. I am vowing to love you and to continue to stand by you forever through sickness and health good and bad, rise and fall. And I could not imagine doing it with anyone else. I love you.”

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

OH! Bees I’m so going to cry. I think I’m going to have to get some tissues for this post.

I don’t have to have any vows. I’m not engaged yet. I’m just reading.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@RahlyRah:  I absolutely love the structure of yours! What you love about him, thanking him, promising him. Also, the last line is so cute! 

 

@Batsygirl:  I’m with you (except I’m engaged). Totally going to sob my eyes out tonight as I watch these posts come in haha. Yaaaay periods! 

Post # 7
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149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Before we say our vows we will be saying this: we wrote it together and added bible verses 

Groom: I will bring to everything that you deserve,. I will bring to you everything that I can give

Bride: I will bring to you only promises I can keep and so it will stay as long as I live. 

Groom: And into our relationship I will bring Joy, as much as one man can bring 

Bride: And into our relationship I will bring Peace, the peace that comes with understanding.

Groom: And into our relationship I will bring Patience, Honesty and Loyalty too

Bride: And into our relationship I will bring Kindness, Tolerance and Gentleness I swear to you 

Groom: And into our relationship I will bring goodness

Bride: And into our relationship I will faithfulness

Groom: But if I speak in the tongues of men and angels but have not love I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal 

Bride: And if I have prophetic powers and understand all mysteries and all knowledge and if I have all faith so as to remove mountains but have not love I am nothing. 

Groom: Love is patient and Kind, Love does not envy or boast 

Bride: It is not arrogant or rude, it does not insist on its own way 

Groom: It is not irritable or resentful, it does not rejoice with wrongdong but rejoices with the truth

Bride: Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things and endures all things. 

Together: So in Faith, Hope and Love abide we shall by these three. But the greatest of these is love. So we vow before God and everyone here today to bring LOVE into our relationship as long as we both shall live. 

Post # 9
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313 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

These are all so great! 🙂

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

posting so I can come back to this! Love this thread! 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

These are beautiful! Makes me sad that we didnt write our own 🙁 yes there’s still time but fi doesn’t feel comfortable saying anything personal like that. 

Post # 12
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384 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

@RahlyRah:  thats so sweet!!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Kempinski San Lawrenz, Gozo

This is just the first draft 🙂

Darling, as I stand before you here, I feel like a princess marrying her prince. This is the most beautiful moment of my life and I have you to thank for all my happiness today. Just seeing you grinning at me like that as we both stand at this altar, I couldn’t possibly feel more loved, beautiful, special, and so very lucky. I vow to do all that it takes to keep this happiness alive throughout our marriage – I’ll be happy when you’re happy, and I’ll laugh when you laugh. But most importantly, I’ll also be there when times get tough. It won’t always be perfect, and we don’t know what hurdles we will come across. But I do know that as long as we work together, everything will be ok. When times get tough, and things aren’t working, I promise to never give up on us. I will believe in you, respect you, and be your rock. Because you’re the most special and wonderful thing that’s ever happened to me, and I love you so much. I promise to support your tea addiction, laugh at your jokes, to keep nagging you about cutting your hair, and to make sure the kids and I always give you time to indulge in your noisy shooting rampages online with your brother. I will always keep trying to fatten you up with my cooking, I’ll count on you to be my hero when I see a scary spider, and I’ll never forget to kiss you good morning every single day. I love you darling, and I can’t wait to start our adventure.

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