- 5 years ago
My SO is VERY sexual and I find I am not in the mood all that much. If it was up to me I would be fine with sex 1-2x week and maybe a HJ or BJ (on the weeks I am home all the time). Currently I am away during the week and get attacked whenever I get home. I feel guilted into doing stuff sometimes because I know it is something he wants. I knew very well when we started dating that he has a good sex drive and I know he worries sometimes if I can keep up with him in the long run. I have had mirena for 3-4 years so I really don’t know that my low libido is from that. I don’t take any other meds and I enjoy having sex with him and just want to be able to keep up! Any suggestions for getting in the mood more often?