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Juliepants this one is for you! I'm curious too!
How many sex partners have you had?
Bwahahaha!
You might get more responses if you add a poll. ;)
ETA: You're way ahead of me! I'll go vote now.
Technically 1.
The other doesn't really count because he went even before he went in <_< *cough*
Just 1.
It's cheesy, but FI and I were eachother's firsts. We were fairly young though, just 18 and 20.
Just my hubby.... We didn't wait until we were married though. We tried. Didn't happen.
@mrsbruff2b: You definately don't have to count that. In fact I would block the memory completely:)
@mrsbruff2b: Bahaha you were obviously just way too exciting for him to handle.
oh crap - I am not sure I remember at my age - I mean the number is not that high but some of them just did not register any more :) Can we limit it to like the past 10 years or something LOL
I think at the time, my reaction was more "WTF?!?!?!" than disappointment or whatever. =/
So ya, I'll stick to my number "1" HAAHAHA
I suppose I should answer my own poll, eh?! I'm in the 11-15 range. I was saving myself for marriage, but when I approached age 30 I thought to myself "What if I died a virgin? God gives us this beautiful gift, why not try it out?" (I know that seems silly, but true). So, I had sex with my boyfriend at the time and then became a "crazed" woman (protecting myself, of course). I sometimes wish I wouldn't have experienced so many partners because there are too many comparisons to make!
Ok, I'll spill it-6. My first BF I was sooooo in love with, we were going to get married, yada yada, got KU, he turned psycho and completely ruined sex for me. Then apparently I self healed and when through a couple tipsy hook ups (one I am not counting because it lasted for a couple of minutes and neither of us were into it) and then found my wonderful DH.
I'm waiting for a spin off for the "How much do you weigh?" question no-no.
@melisslp: I think I am in your range but most of that was my wild and crazy college days - might be slightly under. Funny thing was once I was divorced before Fi there were only 2 one night stands (one drunk and one with a dear friend that we realized naw more siblings than lovers) - I had had enough of men LOL
OK now you are making me curious and I am trying to count for real - sigh
1, my fiancé.
I never really intended to save myself for one man, I just happen to be marrying the boy I was dating when I was 16 and had sex with the first time.
5 for me, sometime I wish it was less but better to have tried it and have no regrets when you finally settle for one person for the rest of your life. Besides college is all about experimenting (without going crazy)
1, my DH. We waited for marriage. It was soooooo hard (I imagine harder for him, he's close to 30) , but worth it :)
@Diet Coke: lets not start a third question that shouldn't be asked! weight is more of a sensitive issue than age or sex partners! and I'm not even that big is just that most women around me are pencil thin :-(
@unixfairy: I'm doing the same thing...trying to recall names and such. Golly!
Ugh I'll go... 6. Lol I told FI he had to be worth me no longer being able to say I can count on one hand!!
@melisslp: Gosh, if the 11-15 range makes you a w****, I've got some friends who own, manage, and run the w****house. :P
ETA: Right, so I just realized your comment was from the other thread and now makes no sense in the context of this one. Derrrr! Apologies.
@thursdayschild: Ha, same here! Sometimes it still shocks the hell out of me that I ended up so "chaste." ;)
@melisslp: OK I definitely can come up with 8 or 9 so I voted 11-15 because I thought it was that many before I really counted
maybe forgot a few along the way but not sure it matters really
@Juliepants: Okay, so maybe I'm just a lil sleezy?! haha! (But, it was really because I waited soooooo long and then my hormones raged)!
@unixfairy: Phewie! I was able to name 10...and I know there were a couple that were forgettable! lol
@melisslp: Bahaha, not in the least! I hope I don't end up offending anyone with my comment, I'm going to go edit just in case. :)
Now that I've been lurking/hanging around all night - I've been waiting for this too. I am one off of too many to count!
15. And I tried to name them in order... I apparently have a thing for guys with the same name...
@mrsbruff2b: I had a similar situation... however he was so small I never felt anything.. and I am not exagerating!
so 2 is my number :)
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