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posted 3 months ago in The Lounge
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  • poll: How many sexual partners have you had?
    0 - Saving myself for marriage : (19 votes)
    6 %
    1 - One and only one : (86 votes)
    29 %
    2-5 : (92 votes)
    31 %
    6-10 : (47 votes)
    16 %
    11-15 : (26 votes)
    9 %
    Too many too count : (28 votes)
    9 %
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    Juliepants this one is for you!  I'm curious too! 

    How many sex partners have you had?

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    Bwahahaha!

    You might get more responses if you add a poll.  ;)

    ETA: You're way ahead of me!  I'll go vote now.

     
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    Ice Skate    August 5, 2012  

    I voted first so I'll break the ice... 3

     
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    mrsbruff2b    June 20, 2012   Canada (wedding in Cancun)

    Technically 1. 

    The other doesn't really count because he went even before he went in <_< *cough*

     
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    @Juliepants:  I just did! 

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    4 :)

     
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    KeeKalena    September 22, 2012   Mississauga, Ontario

    @mrsbruff2b:  Ooohh ouch. >_<

     
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    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    Just 1.

    It's cheesy, but FI and I were eachother's firsts. We were fairly young though, just 18 and 20.

     
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    taylor.ashleys    August 6, 2011   Alabama

    Just my hubby.... We didn't wait until we were married though. We tried. Didn't happen.

     
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    @mrsbruff2b:  You made me giggle! 

     
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    ella86    October 6, 2012  

    @mrsbruff2b:  LMAO hahaha....

     

    2

     

     
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    MrsMeNow    September 18, 2010   Wisconsin

    @mrsbruff2b:  You definately don't have to count that. In fact I would block the memory completely:)

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    @mrsbruff2b:  Bahaha you were obviously just way too exciting for him to handle.

     
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    meg.miles    August 17, 2012   Lancaster, CA (getting married in Olympia, WA)

    0, waiting for marriage :)

     
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    couawilou    October 20, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    @mrsbruff2b:  lol

     
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    unixfairy    April 14, 2012   Las Vegas

    oh crap - I am not sure I remember at my age - I mean the number is not that high but some of them just did not register any more :)  Can we limit it to like the past 10 years or something LOL

     
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    mrsbruff2b    June 20, 2012   Canada (wedding in Cancun)

    I think at the time, my reaction was more "WTF?!?!?!" than disappointment or whatever.  =/ 

    So ya, I'll stick to my number "1" HAAHAHA

     
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    RevMic    July 1997   Oregon

    I saved myself for my hubby. So he is the only partner I have ever had.

     
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    I suppose I should answer my own poll, eh?!  I'm in the 11-15 range.  I was saving myself for marriage, but when I approached age 30 I thought to myself "What if I died a virgin?  God gives us this beautiful gift, why not try it out?" (I know that seems silly, but true).  So, I had sex with my boyfriend at the time and then became a "crazed" woman (protecting myself, of course).  I sometimes wish I wouldn't have experienced so many partners because there are too many comparisons to make! 

     
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    @unixfairy:  I understand completely! 

     
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    Aure    October 6, 2012   Las Vegas

    I'm in the 6-10 range.

     
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    MrsMeNow    September 18, 2010   Wisconsin

    Ok, I'll spill it-6. My first BF  I was sooooo in love with, we were going to get married, yada yada, got KU, he turned psycho and completely ruined sex for me. Then apparently I self healed and when through a couple tipsy hook ups (one I am not counting because it lasted for a couple of minutes and neither of us were into it) and then found my wonderful DH.

     
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    Diet Coke    January 1, 1991  

    I'm waiting for a spin off for the "How much do you weigh?" question no-no.

     
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    unixfairy    April 14, 2012   Las Vegas

    @melisslp:  I think I am in your range but most of that was my wild and crazy college days - might be slightly under.  Funny thing was once I was divorced before Fi there were only 2 one night stands (one drunk and one with a dear friend that we realized naw more siblings than lovers) - I had had enough of men LOL

    OK now you are making me curious and I am trying to count for real - sigh

     
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    @Diet Coke:  I won't go there...promise! 

     
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    thursdayschild    May 2012   Port Hueneme, CA

    1, my fiancé.

    I never really intended to save myself for one man, I just happen to be marrying the boy I was dating when I was 16 and had sex with the first time.

     
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    eperez21    June 23, 2012  

    5 for me, sometime I wish it was less but better to have tried it and have no regrets when you finally settle for one person for the rest of your life. Besides college is all about experimenting (without going crazy)

     

     
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    lawschool bride    August 13, 2011  

    1, my DH.  We waited for marriage.  It was soooooo hard (I imagine harder for him, he's close to 30) , but worth it :)

     
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    eperez21    June 23, 2012  

    @Diet Coke:  lets not start a third question that shouldn't be asked! weight is more of a sensitive issue than age or sex partners! and I'm not even that big is just that most women around me are pencil thin :-(

     
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    @unixfairy:  I'm doing the same thing...trying to recall names and such.  Golly!

     
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    MrsPom    April 28, 2012   Houston, TX

    Ugh I'll go... 6. Lol I told FI he had to be worth me no longer being able to say I can count on one hand!!

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    @melisslp:  Gosh, if the 11-15 range makes you a w****, I've got some friends who own, manage, and run the w****house.  :P

    ETA: Right, so I just realized your comment was from the other thread and now makes no sense in the context of this one.  Derrrr!  Apologies.

     
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    Roe    June 9, 2012   PA

    @thursdayschild:  Ha, same here! Sometimes it still shocks the hell out of me that I ended up so "chaste." ;)

     
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    unixfairy    April 14, 2012   Las Vegas

    @melisslp:  OK I definitely can come up with 8 or 9 so I voted 11-15 because I thought it was that many before I really counted

    maybe forgot a few along the way but not sure it matters really

     
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    @Juliepants:  Okay, so maybe I'm just a lil sleezy?!  haha! (But, it was really because I waited soooooo long and then my hormones raged)!

    @unixfairy:  Phewie!  I was able to name 10...and I know there were a couple that were forgettable!  lol

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    @melisslp:  Bahaha, not in the least!  I hope I don't end up offending anyone with my comment, I'm going to go edit just in case. :)

     
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    thursdayschild    May 2012   Port Hueneme, CA

    @Roe:  Haha yup!! I know exactly what you mean.

     
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    @Juliepants:  I think you'll be fine! 

     
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    shooting_star5711    May 18, 2013   Carbondale, IL

    Now that I've been lurking/hanging around all night - I've been waiting for this too.  I am one off of too many to count!

    15. And I tried to name them in order... I apparently have a thing for guys with the same name...

     
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    maudemaisha       Montreal

    @mrsbruff2b:  I had a similar situation... however he was so small I never felt anything.. and I am not exagerating! 

    so 2 is my number :) 

     

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