Post # 1
In a perfect world, if you could ask your FI’s/So’s ex a question and get an honest straight answer and it WOULDN’t cause drama, what would it be?
I’d ask her if she really cared about him, or used him for money like everyone says she bragged about.
Not angry at her (as I have the most amazing man that she lost. dummy), just seriously wondered.
Post # 3
I’d ask her why she got pregnant by an old boyfriend and tried to make him believe it was his.
I’m really, really hoping I run into her one day so I can ask her in person
Post # 4
I would not ask anything I would just smile sweetly and wave. My Hubby is seriously thoughtful, kind, generous and loving and she just wanted him to foot the bills and cater to her every whim and need. He cooked, cleaned, shopped, looked after the kids and made an excellent salary. And when he had to take a job transfer to another city (to keep the excellent salary) she said she was not moving, wanted a divorce (which then she drug her feet on for years) and was getting a dog to replace him.
His entire family is thrilled to see him loved and appreciated and having fun for the first time in his adult life. I intend to spend the rest of my life making sure he feels that way. 🙂
BTW I felt it was poetic justice when the dog she bought to replace him actually ran away.
Post # 5
@unixfairy: Do we have the same hubby? It sounds like they have the same ex-wife 😉
Post # 6
I would ask her with the fuck she cheated on him?! Not that I can really complain because it ended their relationship but now he has serious trust issues. Dumb girl. I mean really, how could you cheat on such an amazing man?
Post # 7
Why it was any of her business at all about how young I am…
But then… I don’t really care actually.
Post # 8
No drama? I’d probably just punch her in the face. I don’t really want to know why she cheated on him or thought it was okay to ask my FI to get tested for STDs. She thought her man on the side gave her one and was too afraid to get tested herself so she made FI go. Fucking classy, right?
Yeah, no. I’d just punch her. Lucky for her we no longer live on the same continent.
Post # 9
@Aure: Wow…super classy. What a jerk.
I’d ask her how she could cheat on someone like him. Then deny it after he walked in on her cheating on him. Right…you must have slipped and fallen on the other guy’s d*ck.
Post # 10
@unixfairy: that IS poetic justice
Post # 11
Yeah – I guess I’m lucky in that we have zero issues with any of DH’s exes. They aren’t like best-buds or anything but they don’t affect our lives in any way what-so-ever.
So I wouldn’t ask them anything. Why bother them? I guess the only thing I can think of would be asking his HS girlfriend to tell me funny stories from his HS days.
Post # 12
Id ask her to admit herself into a psych ward and seek counseling.
(they never really dated, but she stalked him forever!)
If I could do anything and get away with it; id punch her in the face then spit on her.
Post # 13
I would thank for her never telling DH that she was only with him because she couldn’t be with his (married) brother. I was given this tidbit of information independently from both BsIL and their wives, and it’s one of the few secrets that I’ll keep from DH (as will my ILs).
Post # 14
I would tell her she is a huge bitch for stringing my DH along like she did. Nevermind all the horrible things she did to me.
Post # 15
My FI doesn’t have an EX! Is that crazy?!?! I had one serious boyfriend before him, but he’d only ever gone on one or two dates with different girls. I feel so lucky now, I’m sorry for your SO’s nasty pasts! Made them the men they are today, though, and able to appreciate all of you as sane women 🙂
Post # 16
I would ask her what it felt like to lose the best thing she could have had!