Spinoff! Would you allow your husband to sleep with other women if he wanted to?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you allow your husband to sleep with other women if he wanted to?
    Yes : (2 votes)
    1 %
    No : (125 votes)
    88 %
    Maybe : (5 votes)
    4 %
    Only if we both can : (10 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2402 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    No I’m a very jealous person to begin with. Adding other women would NOT be okay with me.

    Post # 4
    Member
    2388 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    He can absolutely sleep with other women.  While he’s doing so, he’d be paying me alimony.

    Post # 5
    Member
    4416 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Haha he can sleep with whoever he wants, just as soon as the divorce is final Tongue Out

    Post # 7
    Member
    4528 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Not if he wants to remain my husband

    Post # 11
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    4499 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @MariContrary:  +1

    If my husband wants to sleep with other women then he has no business being my husband. In no way, shape or form would I ever “allow” this.

    Post # 12
    Member
    953 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @GirlPower:  umm I think the reverse would be “Would your husband sleep with other women if you allowed him to?

     

    Post # 13
    Member
    4529 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I’m not judging anyone that chooses a relationship like that, but to me it’s just ASKING for trouble: catching something, unplanned pregnancy, etc.

    Post # 14
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    4529 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @sablemuse:  I’ll go ahead and answer that one: “probably” lol

    Post # 16
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    3888 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I voted Maybe.

    if I were injured or ill and unable physically or emotionally to have sex, I would actually encourage him to go outside the marriage, although there would be some pretty heavy boundaries: no emotional ties to that other woman, take all precautions against pregnancy or disease, and so forth.

    I’ve also told him that if he ever had fantasies about involving a third person in our sex life, we could consider it, and that we’d likely go to a legal brothel (like in parts of Nevada), so we would not risk any emotional fallout or STD’s. He is, for the most part, uninterested in that, but people change over time, and it’s nice to know there’s safe, legal options if we need them (and I will save my diatribe on why prostitution should be legal, for another day).

    apart from that, it really would all depend on the circumstances. I’m happiest when he’s happy so I would at least keep an open mind while we discussed, I hope.

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