Spotting, supposed to meet up with long distance hook-up, what to do?

posted 4 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 16
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6320 posts
Bee Keeper

quickquestionbee1 :  I noticed bleeding stops or slows down a lot when having sex. 

Tell him and put a towel down or have a bonk in the shower if you’re concerned about extra mess. 😉

Post # 17
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1377 posts
Bumble bee

I’m not trying to be judgmental, but why would you feel comfortable enough to spread your legs open for this guy and allow him access to your most private parts, yet having a simple convo about what naturally happens to a woman’s body is giving you so much anxiety??   I’m sorry but it doesn’t make sense to me.  From your OP and all of your updates, it sounds like you have no problems having sex with this guy, yet you have all these fears having a simple convo about something that is completely not your fault.  

Post # 19
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2015 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

When I’ve been spotting, I haven’t even noticed it during sex. Depending on how much spotting you are even having right before hand I probably wouldn’t even bother mentioning it. Although I’d also probably avoid him giving you oral at all. But other than that I don’t see any issues. 

We use a towel when it’s my period as precaution and have never actually needed it. I definitely don’t use a towel when just spotting. 

Post # 20
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2761 posts
Sugar bee

Eh…I feel like when I have my period even a little, sex definitely speeds it along! The penis is way up there stirring shit up (at least that is how I visualize it lol…lovely I know).

Anyway, don’t overthink it, I’m assuming he’s had other gf’s before so this is not his first rodeo with the bloodz.

Post # 23
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2534 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

He probably won’t even notice. I wouldn’t even mention it if he doesn’t! 

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