Squirter, gusher or none of the above? Yes I'm talking about SEX!

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: When you have an orgasm what happens?
    Squirt : (34 votes)
    10 %
    Gush : (71 votes)
    21 %
    Remain the same : (177 votes)
    53 %
    Something different... explain : (44 votes)
    13 %
    Still a virgin. : (8 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    1137 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @tiff-tiff-tiff:  Still a virgin here! Lol, and have actually NO IDEA what you are talking about! Care to explain!? lol

    Post # 5
    Member
    1515 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    It really depends on the day – I’m a combo  of stay the same, squirt and gush haha. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    7195 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Why can’t virgins have orgasms? Heck that’s when I learned to orgasm – by touching myself.

    I get a huuuuuuuge wave of pleasure, and contractions, but have never ever squirted, let alone gushed. So I ticked “other”

    Post # 8
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    1137 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @paula1248:  I don’t masturbate either! The thought of it is so weird for me! Hehe, just not my thing!

    Post # 9
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    7195 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @AnaA:  I’d encourage you to try it at least a bit, closer to your wedding. It really helps to be able to tell your husband what works. (And I’m a Christian who waited until marriage to have sex).

    Post # 10
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    1275 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I’m replying even though this is incredibly awkward/embarrassing

    I have never had an orgasm!  I know, it’s strange.  I’ve been having sex for six years and I’m thrilled with our sex life and I love sex and we are very compatible in bed but it just hasn’t happened for me yet.  I’m not too worried since I’m still in my early 20s and I’ve read sometimes it takes women longer to reach that capacity.

    Anyways, one time, though, I literally soaked the bed.  The entire bed was WET.  I was horrified because I was like DID I JUST PEE ALL OVER but my FI, the lovely charming and logical man he is, SNIFFED the sheets and said, “definitely not pee, this just smells like your sex!” and it DID.  I just gushed I guess!!!  Sex felt better than usual that morning but there was no dramatic climax and screaming or anything!  I was horrified for a while but I calmed down lol.

    Post # 11
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    8518 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Gushing? Omg. I’ve never even heard of that. Squirting, yes. My FI is weirdly turned on by squirting, but I just cant do it. I’ve felt like I might before, but then I start to feel like I’m about to pee, so I hold back.

    When I orgasm the only thing that happens is that my muscles start spazzing out. Particularly the “inside” muscles.

    Post # 12
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    8518 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @AnaA:  I’d also recommend masturbating before marriage. It’ll be so awkward and painful otherwise! Plus you need to figure out what pleases YOU, so your FI isnt the only one getting something out of it.

    Post # 13
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    90 posts
    Worker bee

    according to SO im a gusher 😉 

    Post # 14
    Member
    1346 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’ve done it all. Gushed, squirted, shook, and nothing.

    Post # 15
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    3394 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @tiff-tiff-tiff:  I don’t suppose I do either, but it just gets really wet, to the point where I have to get off him, wipe and then continue on cause I can’t feel a thing when it’s that wet in there (which makes the sex no fun). 

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