(Closed) Stag Do Drama!

posted 4 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
Hostess
7568 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Is the usher gay? If so I wouldn’t expect him to forgive and forget very soon. (Nor should he be expected to.) I would ask your FI what he suggests. 

Post # 4
Member
272 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

It sounds like the best men need to apologize, or else they should be the ones to drop out of the wedding if the were indeed being homophobic towards the grooms brother!

Either way, it is up to your FI to get to the bottom of the conflict and straighten it out.

Post # 5
Member
95 posts
Worker bee

Without knowing the people involved, certainly sounds like if anyone should be bowing out of the wedding should be the best men and not the grooms brother usher. With or without alcohol, thats pretty unacceptable and your grooms best men don’t sound like people I’d want to celebrate with. 

Sorry your man is going through this on what should be a fun night, but couldn’t he have stopped his friends bullying his brother before it became violent!?!

Post # 6
Member
92 posts
Worker bee

I agree with the other post here that if someone should back out it should be the best man and certainly not the brother of the groom. 

Post # 8
Member
444 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - rolling hills of southern italy

I so doubt you can do much. Try not to worry, it seems this one is between the boys.

Post # 9
Member
9560 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2018

Youe H2B needs to tell his best men that that kind of behaviour is NOT ok, making fun of someone because of their sexual preference is intolerable! He should make them apologise, and tell them if there is a slightest hint of it at the wedding, they will be kicked out. I agree with PPs, if anyone should step down it should be the best men NOT the usher.

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