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    sin      

    I am isues with future in laws. to bein my woes, i have figured MIL is lying to her son about me and my parents. I have pointed it out to him and assured him I shall never lie to him, so he can know the wolf here.

    My in laws are being over bearing and over demanding as my parents are paying for the wedding, their demands dont seem to stop, like we want red carpet, and bed tea and laundry service. my parents are putting up their guests in a 5star hotel and things are not cheap. 

    i am upset and disappointed with them. FI and I had a talk he is very sorry for his parents behavior, as they are keepin him out of the picture as he lives in another city and  my in laws are dealing with the wedding affairs.

    i am tired of having to drag my Fi and tell him everyday that his parents are lying to him. they inform my parents that they want something a certain way and then when it gets done, they show me down and tell FI is this all they do. He gets upset until he hears from me that things were done in accord to his parents instructions.

    i dont want to get married feelin so negative about them. i cant tolerate them. and i am sure how living with them nearby will be.

     

    FI is also having issues with them, they dont think alike and he is having issues with regard to handling finances with them

    how to i begin to enjoy my wedding which is less than a week away from today!!!

    plz help!! 

     
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    Tanya123      

    Sin, I'm not even sure what to tell you.  I feel for you and wanted you to know that.  It sounds like this is something that is not new, maybe exacerbated by wedding planning, which is stressful.  Do you have to live so close to them?  I'm not sure I understand how awful their demands are or where they are coming from...but your Fi should just explain to them the wedding is in a week and everything is set.

     

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