Post # 1
So this past weekend I went on a first date with someone I met online. We had talked for about 2 weeks before meeting each other, so we both felt very comfortable when the time came to meet. We went out to dinner and had a great time. We just talked and enjoyed each other’s company and learned more about each other. After dinner we both agreed that we would go get a movie and go back to her place. Everything went great and we just spent most of the night talking. When I left we gave each other a hug and kiss, so I’m assumsing things went well. I’m going by her place again tonight to just hang out with her. I texted her this morning and said hope you have a good day and that I’m excited to see her tonight. Her response was good morning, I will see you soon! Not the kinda reaction was expecting. Think I came on to strong and blew my chance? Or am I just overthinking things to much?
Post # 2
If you’re asking this on a wedding website then, yeah, you’re overthinking things. Relax, enjoy getting to know each other, and just see how things turn out!
Post # 3
presto86: Over thinking for sure. What’s wrong with her response? I don’t see it.
Post # 4
Overthinking it. She might not be a morning person, or maybe you’re being a bit overzealous… if a guy texted me “Hope you have a good day, looking forward to seeing you tonight”, I would likely have responded similarly to her. She didnt cancel, she didnt say “K”, she said good morning, see you soon… I see nothing wrong with that. Although she didnt confess her undying love & devotion, but where would the fun be in that?? lol
Just pay attention to her reactions, if you’re talking about how excited you are, or how much fun you have with her, or how much you like her and she doesnt respond equally, you might be making her uncomfortable (and you should dial it back a bit), or she doesnt feel the same (and she’ll let you know)
Post # 5
I understand. I just haven’t had the best luck when it comes to dating, so I have a tendency to over think things. I’m hoping that’s all it is.
Post # 6
Have you thought that maybe she doesnt want to see over interested either? unfortunately a lot of times people hold back because they dont want to seem too eager or too into you.
Go with the flow and relax.
Post # 7
that was a good response!
If she had texted back “who is this??” then I’d have worried 🙂
Post # 8
Not the kinda reaction was expecting.
Stop that. It really isn’t fair. It’s like you are writing a script inside your head of how this should all go and what her reactions should be and then being upset when she doesn’t follow the script. That she has no idea even exists. How does that allow for her to be naturally herself? She isn’t some actor in the play you are writing in your head. Leave room for her to be herself and leave room for you to figure out who that is. At this point, she is someone who returned your text fairly promptly and said she would see you later. What more do you want from someone you’ve had one date with?? Yeah. Lighten up.
Post # 9
Bahahaha you sound like my friend that just went on an online date the other week! She said things seemed to go really well and he was texting her non-stop. The one day she only had gotten one or two texts back from him and she got so upset, especially because neither of them were flirty.
Overanalyzing. Just enjoy things and see where they go. Do not read into texts.
If I read into texts I would not have my boyfriend because he can be a piss-poor texter.
Post # 10
I’m kind of confused… What was she supposed to say? I don’t see anything wrong with her response and tbh I can’t think of anything else that she could’ve said.
Post # 11
presto86: tonight IS soon. So she basically agreed with you. Am I missing something?
Post # 12
- Wedding: October 2015 - Ruby Princess
Don’t be an eager over-texter. She likes you. Relax. Is is easy to blow it at this stage. But, that said, if it is meant to be, it will be.
Post # 13
What is wrong with her text? I interpreted that as “soon” = “tonight”
Relax and be yourself!