STD question!

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
755 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@sugarcube:  I would send it anyway.  Better to have him appreciate the fact that, despite the job and moving, you’d want him there – rather than have him be hurt that he wasn’t included simply because hes moving.  We have a few people that, because of military circumstances, will be hundreds of miles away and wont be able to make it because of this – but we send them STDs anyway to show that we’d love them there in spirit.

Post # 4
Member
4502 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Send Bob the STD. If he moves, he probably won’t attend–no biggie. But if he doesn’t move and you didn’t invite him, that’s awkward. 

Post # 7
Member
1088 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Yes, but chances are slim he would say Yes?  If he does, that’s great, he’ll have an excuse to come back and visit, and if not, at least you didn’t hurt his feelings!

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